Situation:
Girl I like is clebreting her birthday this weekend. Well, feelings are actually mutual. We are flirting for now, we have built a little comfort, which means that if I go to that birthday it doesn't mean that I am going to end up with her.


Problem:
She is gorgeus, and she is going to wear a corset which means that wherever we go she is going to be hit on many, many times. I will be part of 8-set when we go out, and I know that not a lot of guys would try to sarge that big group, but we will probably split, some of them will go i the bathroom, some to order drinks, some to the dance floor, yaada, yadda, yadda.... You get the idea.
I need advice on handling the external interrupt (the guys who will be trying to sarge her) and dressing. Should I extremely peacock myself so that when people see us, think that we have something going on? Nobody in this 8-set will be as dressed up as she will be or as matter of fact in the club.

Problem #1
How to handle external interrupt?

Problem #2
How to peacock myself enough to exude the same confidence vibe as she will?

Date and time of event:
Day: 18; Month: 06; Year:2011
So, it's this Saturday, please HELP!!!

well its all about timing... start by ignoring her , wait a little bit after all its her birthday, then go up there as if your gonna make her night better ... dont worry about other guys....give her the best night ever , good luck

Yes, but you don't understand, she is manipulative b*tch, everthing she does has a secret agenda. Don't get me wrong, I like that , but girls like her are something like strippers, her IOI's sometimes count for nothing. She will be all cuddly and give me plenty of IOI's just because she wants to win me over ( it's like a contest to her).
I am afraid that if I give her my full attention she will get bored with me and walk off. I thought that I could perhaps try to sarge other womenn in club, so that she could see that I have other women eating from my hand, and if succesively brush off guys
trying to brake our little group, she would find it attractive....
Chicks find that alpha-man stuff attractive, the question is how?
I see that you are new to the forum, but how new are you to the game?

thats what I told you , start by ignoring her , start by sarging other girls ...then go to her, as if "your just like one of these girls" you will become a challenge for her...

If se really is a gamer, you should sarge but not close, that pre-selection will jump start her fight or flight, and if she is game, I'll bet you she'll fight

Remember to lean in this is important, since it makes the difference between you looking like a douche hitting on all the girls and not getting any, and all the girls hitting on you, and you turning them down.

you should not overly peacock yourself, the way you should be showing that you are with her is by her hanging around trying to get your attention, dress nice, be clean.

this video can give you an idea on how to handle the external interrupt, though i suggest only using the body language part of it, and making it more subtle, since if you do it this way, you're going to get your ass kicked at some point.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLhEAFk7CA8

good luck mate

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hahaha, yeah, I get it now...

How do you mean lean in? I usually "lean out" so that I don't telegraph a lot of interest. So, I should peacock, but not to look like circus clown?
hahaha, I liked this, the last part was just genious. I am pretty sure I'll get my ass kicked if I don't calibarate it... Thanks bro

Don't you mean "DON'T lean in"?

When you first get into the club, ignore her and start gaming other girls. Learn to work a room. Women want men who are wanted by other women and you want to display an aloof attitude, not one of desperate interest.

Don't worry about her being manipulative, all girls are manipulative. Some are just better at it than others, and some make it more obvious. The ones that are more manipulative require a high level of asshole game so be ready to neg the shyt out of her and flirt with other girls.

The more you worry about other guys, the more you will make it obvious that you aren't confident in yourself. Girls have a 6th sense for that type of shyt. YOU are the AMOG, when you see her flirting with other guys, laugh at their inferior game.

Finally, STOP PEDASTALIZING THIS GIRL. I can tell just by your post that you are holding her up in too high of an esteem. Remember, girls who have big egos have been comfortably sitting on top of an obelisk the size of the pyramid of Giza all their lives. They an ALPHA to KNOCK THEM off of this pedestal.

Is this girl posting on other forums about how to get YOU interested? If not, you have already shown a much higher level of interest /desperation than she has. Whoever cares LESS in a relationship has MORE power. You have to give off the aura that you have OTHER options.

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Dude, just chill. It's her birthday, let her have some fun. She'll love the attention but she'll blow of the loosers. I don't think you have much to worry about but having fun.

Why are you complicating have fun, talk to people, she'll come to you, when you're talking to her the best advise that I can give you is to flirt a lot (like really over do that shit).

For peacocking don't go extreme, wear your best self and you'll be good, just because she's all peacocked doesn't mean that you have to be too (I recommend a shirt with some bigass caption on it ex. I LIKE YOU)

Have fun

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Well let her win you over enough to get your dick but not much else.

Well, thank you guys for all the tips, I'll try my best tonight, I'll just shot the shit, and I'll give my input on situation tomorow. And if I fail, I'll probably lose some confidence, but, at least I'll gain knowledge...

Okay I screwed it up...

We didn't go in a club, she rented an elite caffe bar, so the situation was kind of unexpected. I was playing drinking game with some girls who were also on the party, so I got pretty drunk (which I do a lot lately). I completely forgot about the game and just looked like an idiot.

Her friend and I hooked up in the bathroom, but I had problem with erectioon which I never had before, and after 5 minutes waiter came and said that's time to close the bar, so she went out pissed and dissapointed.
We all went to club, but I stayed outside talking with a friend, and within one hour, I saw my girl leaving the club with some guy (she just wanted to get fucked that night, and I didn't recognize that). I ended up with her other friend (she was ugly, and I was too drunk to realize that).

Anyhow, she went with that guy somewhere, and her friend and I started looking for her, she was nowhere to be found. Two and a half hours she was gone, I called her couple times, and she didn't answer. I was worried, but I went home.
I called her this morning again, and she finally answered, so I told her that I was worried for her.

I told her that I want to see her this week, and she told me that she is totally caught up with the exams, and that she can't go before wednesday.


This whole situation got me thinking that I maybe don't deserve to be PUA. I have just started this, and already I think that I am not the material for PUA... :-\

there will always be humps that you need to overcome in order to get anything you want in life. and there will always be people that turn away at each hump, and people that keep on going no matter what humps come in their way. only you can decide what type of person you want to be.