So a girl works at my gym, i met her out a month or so ago, and we chatted, i opened with a natural "I know you from somewhere but i forgot" She replied with "Yeah i think u go to the gym i work at" blahblabhalbha

So anyway, we had a good chat and give it 2 n a bit months or so i get back to gyming(lost alot of muscle in this time ...sad face) and i see her at the check out... convo was great... and got her number in the end, even a flirt from her friend at the counter.

So i text her the next evening, we had good txt going, and i can tell shes keen. Shes previously told me how she works 2 jobs and in text, she told me how shes been house sitting. So i wasnt expecting much chance to hang soon, she sed she cant do next week cause every day is occupied, and asked if we could do something when uni is back on(4 weeks away)... i responded with "Your weekends sound grandma as! But yeah, its a date! "

So she adds me on facebook the next day(today) and we only have 3 mutuals, so that would suggest she ... stalked me! Ive been doing some snooping and im not sure she has a boyfreind. My question being should i fb chat her, because i doubt ill be texting her till uni starts... unless you think i should?

Since she added you, you should wait a little to see if she talks to you first, that would be an extra IOI, because you're full of them! If she doesn't, then you should talk to her and make sure she doesn't forget your date. I think you have good chances with this girl, good luck.

start a chat on FB with a slight neg eg: "i'm glad it you who is stalking me online"
then chat naturally and remind her of your date with an idea of what to do just say "well when we catch up we can ....." what ever you can think

How about "Impressive stalking skills!" or should i go with something thats a bit more of a direct compliment, its too late to chat to her now but yeah next time ill leave my chat online and let her talk to me

depends on how she will take it, you know the girl and if its her humor go for that, if not have the slight compliment to buff it.

Should i ask her about her boyf and use bhrr?

You could ask if she has a boyfriend, but do it in a subtle way. Like during the conversation say "Whatz your boyfriend think of that?"

And even if she has a man, you could still get a close if she has enough attraction 4 you. Just isolate and escalate....

Aha so its been since last thursday since she added me on fb, should i give her a text or something to keep her on the line?... i dont usually text unless its for something useful though :\