hello guys
i am an asian guy with average high and i don;t know if i m good looking or not but lots of girls say i m cute so i am not that bad looking
I am not rich or poor, just average
at school i am not the most popular guy out their but nobody pick on me so i m just average
I am from belgium and we speak here french dutch and english so i speak only english and dutch which give me little bit disadvantage
lately i have been trying pua and its been like 2 month since really start doing it before i use to read books like mystery method and the art of approaching and i don,t get much result not even number close only i can talk to any stranger but i still have little approach anxiety but i really want to learn pua and get good at it .
but since everything about me is just average am i really worth being pua.
should i just give up or is their hope for me ?
need some advice, specially if u have been in the same situation
thank you all

So what you are average? That's what being a PUA is about, climbing up and getting the life you want. We are not a chosen few, we are those who decided to make a change and are dedicated to work for it. Of course you are "worthy" of it. Good luck.

Its exactly that kind of mentality that will get you nowhere. I know deep inside you that you want to be good with women hence your post. You just want to know the definate answer. Start with the basics:

1- Change that mentality, you can do it. What makes you different to the people who can? you're human yoo. How many times have you struggled with a Maths problem, eventually managed it and then became able to teach it to someone? think about that, its just a new experience in life.

2- You need to realise that women are attracted to a good character the same way we're attracted to their looks. Thats just the difference between men and women. having good looks only makes it easier for the guy to approach the girl, thats it, girls told me that. You can attract girls to your character in a sexual way the same way you're attracted to tits and ass.

3- Now, you have to work on your character. Where ever you go, have a good time, meet people, have a good time with your friends, meet your friends' friends, care for them and love the people around you. THIS IS WHERE YOU START. Crack jokes without giving women much attention and see how many laugh, hell even meet girls just to become friends with, no pressure, its a ladder you climb.

4- I advice you to read The Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo, I promise you that you will find it useful.

If you need to ask about anything, I'm happy to answer, just PM me. good luck

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Inner game is ALL you need, then create your own routine

Dude let me tell you. Studying PUA for only two months is nothing. You say you've read only 2 books or something and your getting no results. Unless you're a natural, then no one would get any results out of that. These things take time. Clearly, there's a few issues that you need to get resolved. One being, confidence. It doesn't sound like you're a very confident person. This needs to change, because the girls can clearly tell that your feeling nervous or uncomfortable. You need to change that. These things take time.

And just reading books won't get you anywhere. If you have approach anxiety, then the only way to get over that is by approaching more women. That being said, I suggest you take a read of the "style life challenge" Its not a book as such, but its a 30 day routine where you do missions and challenges to improve your ability. Its well worth it, let me tell you that.

Also, you may have some inner game issues that you need to work out. Sort those out as soon as you can.

See what I mean now? Its only been two months. Why call it quits? I've known this stuff for about a year now, and I'm no where near as good as I'd like to be.

So my advice to you - if you feel it helps, read more books. Learn about different methods. You're only just scraping the surface. And get out there, and approach more women Never give up. Good luck!

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Grow a pair.

Whatever you get is what you're worthy of. If you can't get women, you don't deserve women right now. However, if you're willing to put in the effort you'll get to the point where you do get women and that's the point when you'll be worthy.

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One cannot lose what one has never had.

Fuck, I'm sick of asians having no game. It makes the rest of us look so bad...

Ok, just conform to your social stereotype. Read a lot of books. Lock yourself in your room to study, then get practical and field test.

Reading 2 books? c'mon are you sure your asian?

Giving up? The mere mention is losing face.

2 months is nothing ... i did have succes in day game however night game and sarging clubs took me a long time to master.

it took me almost 2 months to get used to club enviroments .. let alone approaching people.

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LOL! 2 months?

I been doing it for little over 2 years. I am only like 25% there! Pick up is freaking hard! Stick with it!

Why I have not gotten a girlfriend and settle down? Because This shit is so much fun!

Two months is nothing.. That's just baby experience.. I've been studying PUA for 3 years now...
What I'm doing til now is building up my inner game. I haven't sarge yet, but I know I'm ready to step it up and sarge..
What I first did is I started weightlifting (I was fat), then got some braces, which is almost done.
Do ANYTHING that will make you feel confident and start there, in my case, getting braces for my teeth..
I'm currently reading The Game to even build up confidence. After that, I'm gonna buy Rules of The Game..
Just hang in there, I am Asian too.. I might have an advantage though since I look more Hispanic than Asian..

Also, start by talking to random people, it will help you a lot. Don't just talk to girls.
And if you do sarge and finally manage to talk to a HB, DO NOT expect anything and embrace to lose that girl as Style and Mystery said..

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"Being a pick-up artist is not just about picking up girls. It's about changing your life and yourself."

Knowledge is horsepower!!

Start reading random french stuff. Bad french pickup line are great in this situation. Could be a good comfort builder.

Trying to learn a new language is great DHV. Easy way to #close would be to ask the girl if she could help you with your French and ask for her #.

Just avoid the really cheesy stuff like "Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?".

Good opener could be something like: "Hey guys, I need your opinion on something. I'm currently trying to learn french and wanna know what you think about this pickup line : (Said with a really bad accent/playfull way) Bonjour mademoiselle, vous venez souvent ici?" (Litterally means Hi miss, you come here often?) This is a little like the Dating for Dummies book opener.

I'm gonna go with the rest of the guys and say 2 months is nothing. If you want better results, work on inner game which is where I think you're currently lacking, you should feel like a million dollar even if you're not.

Worthy????? Give up??????

This ain't no special fraternity that you have to do an initiation and then get sworn in. This is just a bunch of guys sharing notes on what has worked for them and what hasn't worked for them.

Give up??

What, do you mean give up being human??? Men want to connect with women...period. Women want to connect with men. Both men and women have circuits that need to be activated for that connection to occur.

The problem is we aren't often taught how to activate those circuits and some people haven't stumbled across it on their own so they have to learn from others.

That is what this website is and that is what some of the books and other products are is just people sharing ideas on what works and what doesn't.

Last I checked there were a whole lotta asians in the world so there must be some asian guys connecting with women...no excuse.

Have you talked to some women in the last two months that you didn't talk to before? If the answer is yes, then you are doing it and you have acheived success. It is working. Today you may have been a little more successful than yesterday and tomorrow you may be a little more successful than today and so on and so on and so on.

That's how it works. that's how life works.

Stop calling yourself average, right now.

Sit down with a pen and paper and write down everything that you like about yourself. Write down all of your achievements in life thus far. Everyone has good qualities and everyone has done great things in their life. Sometimes you just don't realize it.

This will help boost your self-esteem and respect the person you are.

Like others have said, it's only been 2 months man! I've been on this site on and off for about a year.. and I've been reading about PUA for probably 18 months now. I've made vast improvements in some areas, yet still have to improve other parts of my game. DON'T GIVE UP

Good luck

Everyone in this world has standards.

For career, life, and women. Everyone would like to have the best for themselves.

Every guy wants a 10/10 girl. Statistically speaking though, the majority of them are not 10/10 themselves, everything accounted for. Now there are two types of people in this world:

There are those who see the disparity between themselves and their goal, convince themselves that they are not "worthy" to obtain it, and settle for less. First a 9, then an 8, then a 7, until that disparity lessens. These guys are losers. Then there are those who go out and improve themselves to a 6, a 7, an 8, a 9, a 10, until they obtain their goal. These guys are the winners.

You cannot be average. You can only choose it.

Read THINK AND GROW RICH by Napolean Hill. It may just change your life.

from now on i am gonna do the best i can
after the exam i am definetly gonna go sarging man
may be i wil start writng journal

its not being a pua, its being a cool guy and that is just how YOU view YOURSELF