Hi so i recently met this girl at this party and it seemed like we vibed well so as she left the party she told me to text her and i did and things went well then i told her to text me tomorrow... which she said "will do drunky"

She didn't message me, so the day after that i messaged her a flirty message to which she went along with and then i texted her back "i hope i didn't embarass my self that night haha" and she said "sorry im at work, and no you didn't haha"

I waited a few hours and texted her back and she responded well and joked with me, then I said something along the lines

"wait your tired, aren't we were getting married in vegas tonight though! "

she replied "lol i didn't know that!"

I then said "You know, i don't know if i know you well enough actually, i might have to call you! you aren't grumpy when your tired are you? haha"

and got no response, so i didn't end up calling.... does this make me look like a wuss or should i wait a day and then call her? any advice will help

no dont call her, if she didnt respond back she does not want to talk..im going through the same garbage rite now.. some girls are too stuck up, keep looking around

Yohn, you're killing time and wasting your time. Texting/calling should strictly be used to set up a date with the girl, THAT'S IT. The only time I'd use the phone to just have conversations with her is if she has already been my girlfriend for a while and we both just happen to be in different places on that day.

Chris2k10 is right man, you don't wanna go too strong with the texting right off the bat. If I were you I would've texted her later the next day at the earliest, and spark a bit of interest. Depending how the convo goes, I'd either ask her at the end of the convo to hangout, or wait a few days and text her again.

thanks for the advice, should i call her in a few days and set up a hang out?

I mean i don't want to just not try with this girl, i know there is a million other girls out there but whatever its worth trying right?

I agree that you should always try and not give up easily.. BUT.. don't let it bother you that much and really get to you, especially since you have yet to hangout with her.

Has she answered you since that last text or not?

If yes, maybe end the convo pretty quick and tell her you'll talk to her later. Then call in a few days.

If no, I'd say wait 4 or 5 days. If she still hasn't answered then I would just text her, and after a couple messages back and forth ask her to hangout.

Your last text was a lil pushy and deperate for a response. You were waiting for her to approve on wether you should call her or not..... No.

You should def call her tonight. Don't wait. She'll answer dude. I have a chick that almost never responds to my corny text SMS but answers and comes to my house whenever I call and ask. An unanswered text message is not a big deal at all. Who cares? People get busy.

Call her, dont be a wuss. And stop relying on us to help you live your life

Everybody needs help sometimes, bro.