like im talking to a girl and then suddenly i stop talking then i don't know what to say then im fucked.. any advice? tnx

Practise practise practise. Giving a time constrait at the start is a good technique, once the conversation goes bad you can walk way. Sometimes pauses makes certain part of a conversation to stand out and creates impact.

But if you think you have trouble increasing the length of a conversation, keep opening and opening you will realise you can actually use some 'materials' from the HB you opened earlier! E.g ( Theres was this friend of mine actually told me blah blah blah blah blah! Funny ain't it? )

Be prepared! The best thing here is to have some topics in mind, so that you can keep up the conversation. You can ask questions if the topic is interesting for you. If not you can just move on to the topic that sounds more fun to talk about.

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hi

i used to have that problem but i just make sure i cover some of the main Subjects IE work, education, love life and so on but make sure in between you put some negs and compliments in.
If you use the same sequence of subjects with each girl it will start to flow better.

Also don’t be scared to walk away from the convo, most of the time she will return.

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awesome, i get you guys.. im reading.. need some more..

Its a tricky one got me thinking for time as well. Now I just ask the questions and let her speak, and if what she says is interesting I make my comment, if not I move on to the next topic. get her to qualify herself. If qualifying herself is a symptom of her attraction to you then attraction will most likely happen soon...get her to do the work!

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Awkward silences are actually necessary sometimes. Most approach styles depend on building sexual tension, and tension comes from awkwardness. It's less about breaking awkward silences and more about not appearing to be afraid to say something. If you are at a bar and you open a set, you can let an awkward silence run on and take an extra sip of your drink waiting to see if she says anything.

Thing is, you are fine as long as silence isnt caused by you being unwilling to talk or just running out of things to say. Long as that's true, you are actually fine.

Hang up faster!

If you stall for whatever reason, say "Anyway, South Park is on, talk to you later" or something along those lines. Or do you have nothing better to do than talk to a nonresponsive girl?

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approach milfs and older woman .. they are more talkative in general.
on work i always had 5 or 10 minute conversations with hot 18 and 20 year old woman but i had 2 hour conversation with older co-workers.

older people just have more experience and more things to say , just talk to older people ( woman and men ) after a while you get used to their vibe and talkativity.

most 16 and 18 year old girls just fucknig eyeball you and there comes not one word from their mouth in 30 minutes... they are too attracted or too intimidated. if you want to be talkative you need to talk to everyone ... talk to grandpa who is walking on the street .. strike up convos with neightbours.

if you dont know what to say you are just blocking yourself ... you have at least 18 year life experience ... of course you have things to say. being talkative is either a skill or a state ... you can work on both.

what you say isn't really important .. what you are conveying is more important.. if you don't know what to say you are less confident than normal , it;s not the silence that kills attraction ... it's way you are blocking yourself and forcing yourself to not show confidence.

if a girl really is attracted to you you should tell her you like silenct moments between conversation .. she will create silent moments between conversation on purpose.

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very nice guys, any other more?

Let the long silence flow in. Let the awkwardness flow in. This all builds up sexual tension. When you are looking for something to say you are decreasing that sexual tension. When the long silence moves in..maintain seductive eye contact and move in.

that a good one chris ...

do realize that it all depends on calibration ... insecure or social shy woman cannot handle the tension however older woman love it

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The women that you're referring to aren't insecure or socially shy. It's just their role to reduce sexual tension. Shyness plays a small part but in general, women have those sort of shields. It's a feminine characteristic. We are the ones who bring in the pleasure and have to seduce them, they are the ones who put up the shields and make it a challenge. Boy chase girl...knight chase princess, you know how it goes.

i get it.. can i do that on first date? or when?

Hello. Tyler Durden (Owen Cook) encourages us to stay in the tension and make it seem like you are the one relaxing and she is the one with nothing to say. Eyeball her or do something stupid funny (but not self-depricating).

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