i tried to flirt with some girls at a friends house again and didnt do so great. there was one hb9 and the other two were hb7's.there were times when i would get there attention but lost it fast. the two other guys with me gamed them pretty well but there was a time when the 9 would try to get my attention by tapping me with her leg on my heel. i(like a punk) didnt kno how to respond and pissed her off by making her think i was being too serious.

my question is how can i build comfort easier in these situations?. i talk a lot better when im not nervous.

My opinion is to hit on the HB7 make subtle flirting with her and let HB9 sense it. Since the hotter girl is so used to getting the attention she would naturally feel jealous and craves for yours. Push pull with her and see how it works.

For being nervous? Well , you just got to get longer in the game to be de-sensitised from it.

Thanks bruh. And yea makes sense that's what the other guys were kind of doing, now that i think of it.

I dont agree with sleeek. her tapping on your heel or what not is actually an invite for you to speak to her so you should of given her that attention. y try to make her jelous when she's already given u an IOI?! thats messed up. Just remember in the futre, whenever a girl gives u an IOI talk to her straight away and start escalation....

As for being nervous, its all psychological...think about this first, then try it in the future: Just like you, a hot intimedating pretty girl feels like she's higher value than me, its probably why you and I would feel nervous...as soon as she shows interest I feel like her value is down hence you will get the confidence u want to talk to her without being nervous...

another way to boost my confidence is when I see that hot girl getting all the attention and being her cocky self as she has confidence, I try to figure out one or two DLVs about her where I can compare myself to her like "Im richer than her, I'm smarter than her, I'm more popular than her etc" this will give u bigger confidence over her's and will make you seem like the bigger prize so will guarantee u a better performance.

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