Alright guys!

I just came back from a club in my hometown, and my night was good>

I approached an amazing hot girl. I just reached out my hand and said I want to know her. She was very responsive and introduced herself. We talked for 15-20 min., no kino, lots of laughs, eye-contact, but then my lousy wingman said we should go downstairs to the dancefloor. SO we left.

After the approaching, I realized she was the sister of someone I went to Karate a few years ago. I remembered his name, because our names are very similar. So I approached her to tell her this and wanted to ask her number. I did approach to tell her I know her brother, but chickened out to ask her number [dumm, dumn i know!].

A lot of guys approached her that night, like crazy!

I just looked her up on facebook and want to add her. Then I will ask her out.

My question is: do you think it is ok to add her on facebook???? It may look creepy....

[although, I am planning to do that ]

Honestly, I wouldn't, it would look very AFC if you didn't have the balls to try and #close at the bar. Plus I have a feeling this would turn into a oneitis.

My suggestion is since you are comfortable opening sets, just go back in there open some more. You could go to the same club, she might still be there. Open her again, don't go in there being buddy buddy though, open her without a canned opener, maybe neg her in a playfull way about the last time you guys saw each other.

Cheers!

It looks like one-it-is, it smells like one-it-is. No points for guessing what it's going to turn into.

Meet other women too.

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why dont you add her brother. post on his wall about when you did karate together and then later post abpout that you met his sister. she will hopefully see all this and maybe add you. if she does add you you know there is an interest from that night and you can have little chat with her and say it was a fun night lets do it agin some time and we will hang out.
If she doesnt add you judst move oin and get more girls.
just an idea

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So there we have it!

i'd say go for it, you have nothing to lose (if you don't add her you won't see her again will you?). however, find another girl to game at the same time. If your gaming 2 girls at once or more then that, you won't give a f about her and won't care if you fuck it up... which will probably make you do a lot better.

Thanks for the advice bro's!!

Of course it is DLV to look somebody up on Facebook and then add the person.
But the chance I will see her soon is rather small, and probably she would forget me by then. SHe is beautiful, nice, but no Oneites yet!

So i did add her on my facebook. as a personal message i added the following:
'hey there. Congrats! You have survived 15min talking to me yesterday at Club X. Therefore you have won an exclusive FB membership. Anthony"

I added her saturday in the afternoon (4pm). Now it is sunday 3 pm. She did not accept it..yet !

WTF is up the replies I am reading?

Add her on facebook. Be persistence. It will either fuck it up for you or it will get you laid. You will never know. Take the risk, regardless of results, you will win. It will make you stronger as a person if she rejects you, it will get you laid if she likes you.

Oh and the one tittis crap. If you like a girl, nothing is wrong with that. I had it, and these type of girls what inspired me to get better.

Dude, I was gonna say to add her on FB, but the message you sent was totally AFC. You should have continued the conversation, and then found something you could make into a get together or number attainment.