Has anyone ever went through a girls friends to get her number, or to spark some interest? For example, say you've met a girl once but didn't have a chance to number close.. and you know a couple of her friends pretty well (have their numbers, talk once in awhile), but don't hangout with them often so you have no clue when you'll see the HB again??

That's my current situation, and I'm considering texting one of her friends and saying something like: "Hey, so I think that ******* is a pretty cool girl and wouldn't mind getting to know her better. Is she single?" Or something along those lines. I know this worked a few years back in high school, but not sure how it would work now (I'm early 20's)

Just thought I'd bump this up to the first page once because it dropped pretty quick. If anyone's been in this situation before can they help me out? I've seen this girl only twice, wasn't interested at first but now I am. Rarely see her out at clubs or anything though so not sure which route I should take.

from my experience, it depends on the girl you're asking for help. Are you good friends with her? do you trust her? how does she feel about you? If she is fond of you, she might even convince your target to meet up. Always remember, girls look after each other tooooo much, thats just their caring nature, sometimes to the point where they will interfere with each others' business. likewise, if this girl you're asking for help saw bad things about u that may get her thinking ur not right for her, she will cockblock you hard. its an either i will help u a lot or i will end all ur chances situation, know who ur asking. also, once asked the girl to help u out, they will have talking sessions about u, they will talk and talk and talk coz ur target would wanna know what ur like and unfortunately giving this information away to her may make her lose interest, she knows everything about u now, the meeting wont be fun!

Usually, I would ask for the number myself because girls prioratise their girlfriends over anyone else, they're also jelous creatures so they might just simply not wanna see u succeed with her friend and they talk and talk...I once told a girl I thought is one of my best friends at the time and one i trust, that i like her friend and made her promise to not talk. her friend ever since has been acting funny around me, I had to just call it off completely and give her no attention!

If I were you, I would ask her for the number myself. I never ask a friend directly to give me her friend's number purely coz I dont trust any girl behind my back

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I'm pretty good friends with her, yes. She's a really nice girl and gets along with everyone. Her and another one of the HB's friends are actually pretty big fans of me, I joke around with them a fair amount. Actually, that night we were all out, I was making the HB and her 2 friends laugh A LOT.

These girls go to the same college as I do and so I've had some classes with them. I just never really interacted with the HB. But she does know that I'm an outgoing, funny, nice guy (but not the nice guy that fails ).

Oh wow and I just realized I forgot to include something in my original post. About 6 or 7 months ago at a party, the HB's friend made a move on me (she's not hot tho), but we were both drunk and she ended up giving me a BJ. Which I wasn't complaining about at the time, but now I'm hoping the HB isn't bothered by this. Her friend and I talked about it a couple months later though and she said we should just forget about it, to which I agreed. And it's been fine since then, we've still partied and hungout (in groups).

I agree that it's best to get the number myself, but I don't know when I'll see her again.. this was the first time I saw her since school was out 2 months ago.. I don't wanna wait weeks to see her again and miss an opportunity.

Not at all man. If I want a girl, I will go up to her face and start the escalation. If she's gone and I don't know where she is, then I'd get her number from some friends and handle the rest on my own.

"Not at all man. If I want a girl, I will go up to her face and start the escalation."

Usually that's my game plan too, but this time I hesitated to go through with the number close because she's pretty shy and there were about 8 or 10 of us. Now that I think back, I'm pretty pissed off at myself for not asking her.

"If she's gone and I don't know where she is, then I'd get her number from some friends and handle the rest on my own."

Ya, that's what I'm considering doing now. Mentioning to her friend that I'm kinda interested and getting her number.

You can tell her friend you're interested and all, but don't make it as if you're trying to get her friend to make a move for you. If you really want to add a spark, call her up right away and say, "Hey you're that one cute girl I met so I just wanted to say hi.."

it depends really, there are techniques that have you talking to your target's friends in order to indirectly flirt with the girl that you DO want. Usually its rapport building, mitigating mother hen, etc. Once a girl sees you can get along with her friends her bitch shield will usually go down and she will want to out do her friends.

Hey andd95, I think I already have her bitch shield down because the other night she saw that I got along well with her friends and I was making them all laugh. As for outdoing her friends, I did notice that if I got into a 1 on 1 convo with a friend of hers, the HB didn't talk to someone else at the table, she watched me as I spoke to her friend and really followed the convo.. even when it was something that didn't really have anything to do with her.. she followed the convo and tried to get involved. I know that's not a huge indication that she was trying to out do her friends, but she definitely had some interest in what I had to say.

Still just debating whether I should ask her friend for her number or wait and hopefully see the HB sometime soon.. although like I've mentioned, I have no clue when that may be[/b]

I know that, what with the alarming number of emos getting action, it can sometimes seem like being a pansy is favored by women. That's not the case.

Tell her friend to invite her to a gathering or something. Handle the details of the encounter yourself. I've never heard of getting someone's number from someone else working out positively.

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agreed getting the number from someone else just doesn't seem right even if its her best friend. Ask yourself and put any doubts to rest, don't rely on second hand accounts or a go to person to get your information on the girl.