i need the perfect method for picking up women while expending absolutely no emotional energy.

let's face it. most of this pua stuff is about making the girl feel attraction and maintaining that attraction through giving her the proper "types" and "levels" of attention.

men want sex.

women want attention.

my problem is i have no attention span, and absolutely no emotional capacity to even feign anything other than a NSA arrangement with a chick.

how easy is pick-up if you make no qualms about wanting absolutely nothing more than hook-up. NO RELATIONSHIPS! no hand-holding, no one-itis, no bullshit.

what's the best method for an asshole like me? i'll study it.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

You can always approach every woman with the Hitchhiker Thumb pose. I understand it also implies: "wanna have sex?"

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lol! +1

You could hire a hooker...

Mack, have you thought about the shock and awe by Ciaran?

shock-and-awe-technique-by-ciaran-not-a ... 35863.html

I can't think of anything better for your situation.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

lol @ the hitchhiker thumb and prostitutes.

thanks for the link, txacoli

actually, as usual, i was mostly being a monumental smartass when i started this thread.

but there is a hint of truth to the topic for me.

the thing is, what has been holding me back from implementing pua?

i'll tell you.

the fear that there will be an implied move toward a relationship.

insidiously, even from my first meeting, i'm really good at making women want to have "relationships" with me. i'm kind of hard-wired that way. i give off that "vibe" (good boyfriend material).

problem is...i don't want to be a boyfriend.

i am so seriously over relationships that it ain't even funny.

and you all know, as well as i do, that even girls who are into "casual" meetups/hookups, that 90% of them have their relationship RADAR on high-alert.

so, i have been avoiding gaming any girls for two reasons:

- first, i don't know how to manage expectations from very first encounter that NO RELATIONSHIP will ever happen IN SUCH A WAY that they are actually okay with it

- second, not knowing how to manage that expectation of "relationship potential" is a problem because when these girls engage me on that level, they very clearly see that i am quite an asshole who is pretty much emotionally closed off. but, that's just me. (you might be that way too after a decade long mindfuck of a relationship, take two of those and call me in the morning, we'll see if you share my perspective).

unfortunately, i'm a virile, buff, testosterone-driven, horny-ass motherfucker who needs to get laid, lol. it's been awhile and something's gotta give, so............

time to game.

so, all bs and sarcasm aside, my true question:

what is the best method of pickup to use when you want to get laid strictly no-strings attached?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Well, I guess none. Women will always see a potential everywhere. You can manage their expectations, you can tell them everything clearly, but they'll still find a reason to believe she will be the one to change your mind.
However, I'd say more important than the PUA technique, in your case, would be the screening process itself. I don't see how daygame could fit your requirements, my best guess is go caveman in a nightclub and girls that are DTF that same night with that approach aren't really looking for a BF. When you're done, don't take her number and don't give yours

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

lots of option

1. Dr.phil

2. Hang out on sex dating sites ... or you can go to a regular dating site and just advert to bang chicks .. maybe that works

3. Game lesbians
i know where you are coming from .. enough relationships and you see the truth.. woman drain you emotionally no matter which kind of woman you have ( legal of course lol )

if you tell woman you don't want relationships most of the times they eject or lose interest.

mack .. i don't think there is any method ... honesty is honesty unfortunaly most woman get huge ASD when you are about being honest about relationships.
i think you have some psychological problems .. seriously ... relationships can add to well being and life in general you just have to find the right person.

i think you need to change your preselection process .... date woman who go to church .. pickup woman at musea etc ...you need someone who contributes to your life because all those previous crazy psycho bitches only drained you.
materials from dr.paul are about preselection with his warrior , magician , lover and king archetypes.
join the army ...draw unicorns... idk

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lol im going to try this

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That's actually true about lesbians Some would totally be down for some dirty sex with a discreet guy with no strings attached and no bullshit. We're all a little bisexual they say, well most women are, including lesbians.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

first of all, txacoli

i am all about banging lesbians. banged a few. t'was fun.

second of all, lod

me? have psychological problems? nahhh.

i guess i am letting the intensity of my skepticism come through.

i'm not one of these overcompensating emotionally-wounded douchebag types,

it's just that i end up in committed monogamous relationships without ever even consenting to it.

i'll talk to a girl a few times, maybe go on a date or two, next thing you know,

it's like we are engaged or something ONLY I DON'T KNOW HOW THE FUCK it happened...

then when i say "um, like i never even said let's be exclusive" the shit hits the fan.

chicks always just assume i am going to end up their husband.

and then it just starts to manifest in the environment.

meetings parents, anniversary presents, etc... out of where?

i have a conscience, which is why i haven't been picking any up because i don't know how to work around this.

i don't mind them chasing me, i don't even mind them hoping they might end up "the one" who changes my mind, i just mind them automatically assuming we are engaged to be married and have children.

i just want to study a method of pua that lends itself to that air of "unavailability".

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probably lol
never leave your drink around her when you are visiting the toilet.
lol so true .. this is annoying ... i only know a chick for 1 week and already they want me to meet their parents .... feels like obligation - like i have to set my date for the wedding already.

well ... that ozzie guy from RSD is good at picking girls without getting involved like relationship. Gunwitch his shit filters out some relationship girls ....regarding preselection i recommend gaming lesbians and queers lol.

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well, I really don't have that problem, and the reason for that is that I am a skank.
my friends know it, i know it, and the girls i take home know it.

they're okay with it, right now there's a girl sleeping in my bed, i've played around with her sister, last night she hated me for it, but then again I'm a skank it's what i do, so it's okay.
more often than not i hear the setence, i really love sleeping with you, but we could never be anything serious, from the girls i end up making F-buddies, I'm just a skank, I'm good at it, and it makes girls want to be with me, but it completely disqualifies me as boyfriend material.

so thats what works for me, it disqualifies any problems that might occur due to my love of sleeping with girls and then their sisters, or from roaming through a girl and all her friends, or just simply from the trouble of relationships.

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"seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already".
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