“Do girls like jerks?” This is a question most of us ask ourselves when we see a hot girl dating a guy who is known to be a fuckin jerk. Well, unfortunately, the answer is “yes” they do. Girls do like jerks and most guys are dumbfounded by this fact, especially the Nice Guys.

So why is being a jerk is attractive to hot girls?

A few years ago, I asked myself the same question: “why do girls like jerks?” They're associated with all of the bad qualities of a guy. They're inconsiderate, mean, rude, selfish, and some aren't even that good looking. Even still, girls want to be with them. Not only that, girls are magnetically attracted to them. Weird right?

For me, it took years to understand why girls actually like jerks. But let me try to explain what I learned in years, what you can learn in minutes.

Basically, what attracts men to women is extremely different than what attracts women to men. Men, in general get turned on by a woman’s physical appearance. Besides the face, nice body, nice boobs, and nice butt are three things we look out for in particular. Women, on the other hand, do not get turned on exclusively by a man's physical appearance. Women get more turned on by how a man behaves. For most guys, this is the very reason why we have a hard time understanding why a girl would go for a jerk.

So, if you're asking yourself "Do I need to be a jerk for girls to like me?" The answer is "no." But you should at least have a better understanding of some of the core qualities that most jerks possess that girls do like:

1. Alpha Male
Women go for the Alpha Male of the group. The leader. The dominator. If you compare jerks to the Nice Guys, 9 out of 10 times, jerks will display more leadership and more dominance than Nice Guys.

2. Security
It's natural for a woman to want to feel secure at all times if possible. Naturally, women want to be protected and being with a jerk gives them the feeling of security. Yes, jerks may be mean and rude sometimes, but at least they won't back down when it comes to sticking up for the girl that they're with.

3. Confidence
Girls love confident guys and most jerks are confident, if not over-confident. Jerks talk and carry themselves in a way that screams “I own this place.” Girls do not want a guy who is unsure of himself.

4. Unpredictability
Jerks are unpredictable. Without even trying, jerks always keep a girl guessing. They do things to please themselves instead of to please the girl. Very counter-intuitive, yes, but this is what works with women.

5. Challenge
Most women like jerks because they present much more of a challenge than Nice Guys. Women want excitement. They want to be the one who, at the end of the day, "tames the tiger."

Now you should have a better understanding of why girls like jerks. Again, you don't have to be a jerk if you don't want to. But try to master these qualities so you can experience firsthand why these things work so well.

Hope this helps!

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I mostly agree, except for the bit about jerks providing security.
That bit's true, but being a jerk will still get yourself into more trouble than a nice guy; hereby not making the girl feel very secure at all. Other than that, I completely agree with everything else. A very solid post.

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I partly agree:

girls don't like jerks in general, but they like men with DHV:

And DHV is:
- self confidence;
- plenty of options of girls (therefore he can afford to be a jerk/teasy>NEGS)
- leader of men, taking decisions (at least not a follower)
- modest, but succesfull;
- no braggers:

Girls don't like men who always ask their opinions, they want to be lead. And if you try to impress a girl, she will notice it immediately.

And DHV is something we all have, but sometimes we have problems with showing it.

An example:
when you go out and you see a good HB, your first thought is to approach her and talk to her. You already know what to say.
-> If you indeed approach her and tell her what you want to tell > DHV
-> if you wait with approaching, thinking how she probably would react, or what other people in the venue will think of you, thinking of rejection > DLV

[quote="anthonypham"]I partly agree:

girls don't like jerks in general, but they like men with DHV:



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disagree..
Jerks only care about their own wants and needs. In other words they care about THEIR life and not women's. Girls are followers by biological nature, they want to be a part of GUYS life and follow him in it. Think about it, girls want guys who make decisions, create their own adventures, lead in every aspect. A girl biologically CRAVES to be by the side of a guy and follow him, in whatever it is, he wants for his life. A jerk supplies this follower position since he only cares about his life and not hers.

Disagree as well.

Girls don't like jerks, they like them better than "nice guys".

The entire OP sounds reminiscent of the world according to men with nice guy syndrome.

for anyone who don't know what nice guy syndrome is, heartless bitches international does a good job of explaining it, although harshly: http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/ ... guys.shtml

Yes, if you look at the bigger picture, girls ultimately do not like jerks, but they do still like more of the qualities that jerks have over "nice guys." So when compared to "nice guys" jerks win.

When I say bigger picture, I mean that there's usually another guy that has the qualities of a jerk and the smoothness of a player but without any of the negatives of both.

This guy is the ultimate guy and for lack of a better word, I'll just refer to him as a MAN. A MAN is innately attractive, a natural leader and doesn't have the immaturity of a jerk. If it were a toss up between being a "nice guy," jerk or a MAN, then be the MAN.

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what does alpha mean ? ... being a jerk is just immature ... can you be confident, dominant and a - jerk - ? ... yes you can....

what is a alpha guy anyway ? a jerk who only takes value ?

alpha man is kind of a bullshit defenition.... mature man who know what he wants sounds better.

some girls do like jerks yes .. that is just because they don't love themselfs - too insecure. they just want a guy to have a very secure reality because they don't have that themselfs - a jerk is just a guy who overly confident - believes too much in his arrogant believes.

go to a museum .... go to a art gallery ... go to a seminar ... go and be a alpha - jerk there .. everyone will fucking reject you.
in clubs is allowed to be jerk .. most people who go to clubs are not good people in general , alot of guys only game on streets and clubs.

being a jerk doesn't get you anywhere in real life.. maybe in nightlife but not in real life .... you only end up with wrong friends , bad mindsets , arrogant behaviours and terrible situations.
a jerk is just a immature guy who wants other people to see him as a jerk , most guys do not realize they are assholes at all.

Definition of jerk :

1. To give a sudden quick thrust, push, pull, or twist to.
2. To throw or toss with a quick abrupt motion.
3. To utter abruptly or sharply: jerked out the answer.
4. To make and serve (ice-cream sodas, for example) at a soda fountain.
5. Sports To press (a weight) overhead from shoulder height in a quick motion.
v.intr.
1. To move in sudden abrupt motions; jolt: The train jerked forward.
2. To make spasmodic motions: My legs jerked from fatigue.
n.
1. A sudden abrupt motion, such as a yank or twist.
2. A jolting or lurching motion.
3. Physiology A sudden reflexive or spasmodic muscular movement.
4. jerks Involuntary convulsive twitching often resulting from excitement. Often used with the.
5. Slang A foolish, rude, or contemptible person.
6. Sports A lift in which the weight is heaved overhead from shoulder height with a quick motion.

Phrasal Verbs:
jerk off Vulgar Slang
To masturbate.
jerk around


lol good game .. you guys are so cool .. jerks .. lol

note the '' to masturbate '' ... taking value from other people by putting them down - getting satisfaction out of it during the process '' social masturbation''
some of you guys are social masturbators .. lokking for a quick fix through your huge fucking ego.

list of people who probably were jerks :

adolf hitler
Milosovic
Bin laden .. USA a jerk of him but that is another story
Stalin

look if you share some personality traits with the persons above .. they are all arrogant - too rooted in their reality and all are jerks.
now look in the mirror and laugh at yourself .... look in the mirror if you portrait brad pitt X jerk .
laugh at your self created superficial identity ... it could be helpfull if you lived 70 years ago .. performing as hitlers right hand. do you reallythink its helpfull now ? do you really want to be cool instead of being cool ? are you really a jerk because you got dumped and couldn't get over your psychological baggage ? don't make me laugh .... take the sunglasses of your face and put em in your ass along with your arrogant smile.

its good if you say that girls are attracted to alpha male ... what is not good is that 99 % of people don't know what that means .. even most people who write that word don't even know what it mean. Do you really think there aren't any nice guys who are alpha ? is Obama a jerk ? does obama shows similarities with hitler ? is oprah winfrey a jerk ? is dr.phil a jerk ? probably not ... look everyone does have some jerk in them but if you are primarily jerk then you have some issues.
jerks are just foolish people who are too sure of themselfs .. i know a dude who works at mcdonalds .. he is a huge idiot and a huge jerk ... very low key intelligence ... what does he got in life ? did he help people .. NO ... is he doing what he wants - is he really going after the best he can do or be ... NO... he doesn't have any male friends .. only insecure woman... nobody called or visited him on his birthday - im just laughing when he's amoging me.
how can you feel secure in a relationship with a asshole ? .. maybe he cheats like hell ? jerks got poor values when it comes to other people. A jerk do not give them a sense of security , jerks just force their reality and values on the girl until she complies... it's just like annexation of a country.
Jerks attract asshole woman .. woman who want to be fucked and woman who are manipulative.
who the hell cares what girls want ? the question is .. what do you want ?
this is why most relationships fail on long term...
you can also have challenges while being nice....
not really
girls who like jerks are low value woman ... high value woman did not like me when im jerking around ... i've been a jerk .. i only attracted insecure people - people with a low sense of reality.
guess what some woman are jerks as well ? jerk attract jerk .. very simple ... why are you guys overcomplicating it ? bitches pretend to be heartless because everyday they get bothered by hundreds of chodes using lame openers just to get into their pants ... if you are someone who only want to get in a woman pants - you probably are jerk as well.

second reason why bitches are really heartless is because they are sweetgirls .. until they hooked up with that dude who jerked around cheating on her , of course she get traumatized ? do you have anything to do with it ? no .... should you feel responsible ? no ..... is this a reason to behave like a total asshole ? no .....
this does make sense !
well i got girls attracted to my by just using a opinion opener ...

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