i dont have any problem approaching and talking to girls keeping conversation flowing and even get girls interested but i suck at hitting on them.

the best i can do is just try make good eye contact and then compliment them on something. touch their back or shoulder, tell them their hair is nice then touch their hair. and thats it. basically what im trying to say is that i dont know how to flirt well.

i just feel like if knew how to overwhlelm a girl with massive compliments that made sense that would do it for me. alot of the time im just empty talkin to a girl whos attracted to me when i just need to hit on her

like i can tell a girl " ur hair is really nice " . it is an ok compliment .but this is better: " ur hair looks really nice. there are many beautifull girs here in norway but most of them are blonde. rarely do i see such a beatiful brunette. - while i touch her hair

i guess what i am asking for is where i can find some flirting material. obvious im hittin on u stuff

Make a sexual move. Talk about sexual subjects. Comment on sexual things.

Sex the sexual sex

lol panda (i agree). blablae don't just compliment her, i have three girls that like me and i've never said a compliment to them (weird ik but it works..) If you compliment to much you seem to be a minion (you just say yes to everything they want) or not a challenge, like the 10 other guys she saw before you that said the exact same compliment. make the conv sexual and do some kino. You want them pursuing you!

okey. but thing is i am inexperienced so i dont really know how to talk about sexual things or what to say. is there any material that i can read up on to know what and how to talk about sexual things?

i go to a danceclass. i guess i could ask a girl im hittin on if dancing makes her horny.thats what i can think of right now.

but in general i dont know how to talk about sexual things.

Dont ask if dancing makes her horny, youll come off as a horny 12 year old looking to get off. if shes in dance class make her comfortable with like "i like dancing it really helps the stress of the day" or something to start. If your initiating a conv dont start sexual or youll scare her away. after about 2-3 mins switch to something more sexual (you have to force the switch, theres no easy transition), since its dance class kino (touching) should be easier to do (i use http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 793#357793 for kino escalation). Im not to good at the sexual dialogue, but talk about something people that are "just friends" dont.

Any girl that let's you touch her hair is obviously interested.. It seems like your doing just fine with the flirting you probably just aren't pushing for instant dates or number closing.

Agree with Panda.

Sexual topics with girls builds good sexual comforts. It also lets them know your comfortable with your sexuality.

I usually keep it playful and it doesn't have to make any sense to take it to get to sexual topics.

If she says something like "I just seen the hangover 2." You can respond with something like "Yeah, "Hangover" I bet Zach made you cream in your panties." (With a playful sexual tone)

Point is, introduce sexual topics. But if she takes it too far, put the brakes on it first. Also, if you get good at doing this, you will notice that girls will start to talk about sexual stuff when there around you. From here, escalating to sex will not be so awkward.

My basic formula for starting the interaction is to produce an emotional spike with a sincere, cheeky, funny and/or bold compliment.

From there, I won't compliment again until she's actually said something really interesting, displayed a very attractive personality trait, told a funny story, or generally done something to genuinely impress me.

Instead, I focus on getting to know her by exchanging stories, random info, telling her things I think about her (whether a sincere cold read, making statements, or a silly joke cold read), and making a joke here or there (not too much!)

The substance of the interaction can vary hugely, but the vibe I try to give off is

PLAYFUL, FUN, SEXUAL, TEASING and LIGHT

When she says something stupid, it's ok to make fun of her - as long as you do it in a playful, fun way, with a smile. Saying "holy shit that was fucking retarded" with a serious face is an INSULT, but whilst smiling and gently prodding her or pushing her away a little, is playful and flirty.

When she says something that could be used as sexual innuendo, it's ok to make light of it and extend the joke, again, as long as you do it with a smile in a playful way. Saying it in a serious way, or giving off the vibe that your embarrassed to talk about it, is creepy.

As your interaction progresses, drop the humour and the playfulness, and increase the sexual component, by using strong eye contact, body language, voice tonality, and standing close, touching, and alternating normal or deeper comfort conversation with whispering sexy dirty talk into her ear.

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