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PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 9:57 pm 
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iight so I've been talking to the chick that lives next door from me since last Saturday. Monday we hung out at my place k closed. Touched n all that. Tuesday we took a walk together late at night. A bunch of kissing an touching. The walk was for half hour. She texted me that same night telling me " I miss you already"

I text back with a ";)"

She responds with a " :)"

I don't reply.. WensdAy I texted her "get over here" she says " lol"

I text 1 more thing an she doesn't reply.. And that's it.. She hasn't texted/ called me since then, I haven't text'd her either but she usually starts a convo by now.

I could be lookin too deep into this.. What are you thoughts?


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 10:24 pm 
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(a) She didn't want to seem too easy; in which case you don't want to switch frames and be the one chasing her too much. Always maintain a prize mentality. 2 steps forward, 1 step backwards. If you start questioning yourself too much, you reverse roles and SHE becomes the challenge, which you want to avoid. When girls do stuff like this, laugh it off. You are an alpha, you've seen it all, heard it all. It's amusing to you.

(b) Her Interest declined. Wednesday might have been too soon. Generally it's not a good idea to see a girl more than twice a week in the initial stages of dating. When you first call back or text after a close, it's best to wait 2 days. You should have other things to do, enemies to bury, other women to test. (The only exception being an F-close you want to pursue. Call sooner because women hate feeling used, but don't call like an hour later lol). By waiting to call, you will have her wondering about you, feeling more anxiety, and it will bolster your aura of confidence(men who have options are automatically more alpha).

(c) You mis-guaged her interest level. Never judge a women by her words, only by her actions. The k-close seemed smooth, but nowadays even an f-close isn't enough to guarantee that a girl will want to see you again

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 11:02 pm 
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Thanks for the effort and time you put into your input bro.

Tuesday night was a quick 30 min blast for her Like a quicky for a guy lol..

She spent the whole time jumping in my arms, I carried her part of the walk, so the "creeps" outside didnt see her in her mini shorts and tank top. Hand holding all that lovey dovey stuff i usually don't do. We were both completely turned on and comfterable. I coulda banged her on the sidewalk lol.. Too bad her mom noticed she was gone an called her back.. She's 22 Smh.. Im 19..Hb8 an she lives right next door lol


I sorta feel like because she lives right next door different contact rules apply? Or not?


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