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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 8:04 am 
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lets face it, there are gonna be a few women out there that'd you like to get to know but they may be reluctant b/c of their comfort level/bitch (defensive) shields or excuses consisting of "i have a boyfriend"

these 4 words have stumped a lot of guys ive seen on the field and i was wondering, what do you guys use, when you've come across this awkward and desperate statement of her potential relationship
so far, ive come to grow comfortable with :

pua: "blah blah" (escalating sexual tension, with body language, humor etc)
hb: " i have a boyfriend"
pua: " oh thats too bad, i do girl, girl guy not guy, guy girl"

this usually gets me a good laugh or w.e and we keep the conversation going and i may get a number at the end of it all, but Id like to learn what you guys do when you come across this. mainly something funny that would even get the most difficult girl to smile and maybe give you her digits


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Well if you we're building up enough attraction she would have never even mentioned her boyfriend. Maybe you are trying to escalate too fast?

My reply is always something like, "Who asked about your boyfriend?" or "How long have you had that problem?" or "..and?" with a sarcastic tone.

And a friend of mine likes to use this one:

Her: I have a boyfriend.
Him: And I like fast cars.
Her: uh.. what?
Him: I thought we were talking about two things that don't matter?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 8:30 am 
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Well if you we're building up enough attraction she would have never even mentioned her boyfriend. Maybe you are trying to escalate too fast?

My reply is always something like, "Who asked about your boyfriend?" or "How long have you had that problem?" or "..and?" with a sarcastic tone.

perhaps i was escalating a little too fast then she was comfortable with at the time, either way some girls give off obvious IOI's while PUA's are sarging them and sometimes they really do have a bfs or perhaps their really shy or dont wanna seem like their giving it up so easy
either way, i find techniques like yours a little better than memorized elongated material (straw man technique etc.), but yours may come off as a little too
cocky ?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 8:51 am 
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I found a pretty funny reply to that.

blah blah

Girl: I have a boyfriend
GUy: I have a math exam coming up
girl: uhh.. What does that have to do with anything?
guy: Oh, I'm sorry, I thought we were talking about things we were going to cheat on.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 10:29 am 
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Well if you we're building up enough attraction she would have never even mentioned her boyfriend. Maybe you are trying to escalate too fast?

My reply is always something like, "Who asked about your boyfriend?" or "How long have you had that problem?" or "..and?" with a sarcastic tone.

perhaps i was escalating a little too fast then she was comfortable with at the time, either way some girls give off obvious IOI's while PUA's are sarging them and sometimes they really do have a bfs or perhaps their really shy or dont wanna seem like their giving it up so easy
either way, i find techniques like yours a little better than memorized elongated material (straw man technique etc.), but yours may come off as a little too
cocky ?
Regardless of whether they have a boyfriend or not, the only reason women bring up their boyfriend when your gaming them in the first place is because they simply aren't attracted enough to you to cheat.

And to answer your question about these lines being too cocky, they're not too cocky at all. As long as you can present yourself boldly, and in a playful manner, then things should not turn sour. If they do, then that's just how the game works. You take risks every step of the way, and sometimes you succeed, sometimes you fail. Every women is different. Bottom line, if you want to keep a girl you must never be afraid to lose her.

But if you truly feel that it may be too cocky for your persona then you can take the safe route and reply to her next time with, "That's nice" with a sort of carelessness in your tone, and quickly move onto a new topic. Take a step back, and once you build more rapport, you may continue your gaming/escalation once again.

But honestly, who wants to take the safe route? What is life without risks?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 11:51 am 
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One line I was taught when the girl replies with "I have a boyfriend" is "So do I,we all have boyfriends where I come from" :p. Hopefully she will laugh,otherwise its tough luck I guess.


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my personal best:

- I have a boyfriend!

- Hey you! We met just 15 minutes ago and you confide in me with your problems.

or

- I have a boyfriend!

- That's great, you will have someone to spend time with, when you're not with me.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 6:51 pm 
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 7:00 pm 
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Her: I have a boyfriend.

You: My condolences

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You: I'm sorry for you.


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Her : I already have a boy friend!



You : i know right? you're staring at it now. *smiles*

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Her : I have a boy friend!




You : I have a boy friend too! you know? a BOY, FRIEND??!! lol

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this usually gets me a good laugh or w.e and we keep the conversation going and i may get a number at the end of it all, but Id like to learn what you guys do when you come across this. mainly something funny that would even get the most difficult girl to smile and maybe give you her digits
Move on to another chick who isn't wasting my time.


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I totally agree with PUCATT, theres no point wasting your time and your night on girls like that.

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Either ignore or brush off sarcastically any explicit iods.

But seriously someone should try the lil john answer.

H: i have a bf
P: huuwat?
H: i have a bf
P: yeaya!

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 12:01 pm 
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lol having a boyfriend is for me the sign to go ballistic and to try out every materal i have...

i got a boyfriend....

so what ? i got a boyfriend as well


i got a boyfriend....

i thought you were lesbian ... you are not hot anymore

i got a boyfriend

is he hot ? can i get his number?

i got a boyfriend

im your boyfriend all ready .. what the hell is this ?

i got a boyfriend

irrelevant

i got a boyfriend

does that incluse unicorns and ferrytails ?

i got a boyfriend

you watch too much disney movies

i got a boyfriend

it's better not to tell people .. when does he turn 18 ?

i got a boyfriend

stare at the girl and keep staring.. now look at her shoes ...
did your BF bought you those shoes ?
she : no ?
and you call him a boyfriend ?

i got a boyfriend

all desperate woman say that , i just want to talk to you

i got a boyfriend

i hope you aren't referring to the cumcumber in your refrigirator

i got a boyfriend

i got elephant ... boyfriend haha you are soooo uncool.

i got a boyfriend

lol you are intimidated by me so you come up with excuses ?

i got a boyfriend

.. boring ...

i got a boyfriend
... boring again .....

i got a boyfriend

having a crush on a immigrant that works at mcdonalds doesn't imples that he's your boyfriend

i got a boyfriend

im not going to marry you

i got a boyfriend

get a life....

i got a boyfriend

do you know the time
she : why
so i can see how much time i wasted talking to a girl who only wants to talk about her BF.

i got a boyfriend

are you obsessive about dogs?

i got a boyfriend

what is that ? your favorite dinosaur

i got a boyfriend

so waht i got 10 boyfriend ! owned ...!

i got a boyfriend

i do not care .... if i would care i wouldn't talk to you

i got a boyfriend

i don't care ... i only want to know how many girlfriends you have..

i got a boyfriend
( my favorite .. you need balls for this lol )
why do you mension that ? so suddenly you want to do a threesome ?

i got a boyfriend

how cute .. maybe he can pay our dinner

i got a boyfriend

did he ever took you to mcdonalds ?
yes = laugh
no = useless ...lol

i got a boyfriend

you only hooked up with him so you can get a discount at mcdonalds

i got a boyfriend
( use this if she's lying lol )
do you also make him wear lipstick ?

i got a boyfriend

you to are obsessed with this actor from lost ?

i got a boyfriend

i know he is my best friend

i got a boyfriend

where is he ? do you hide him in your purse ?

i got a boyfriend

il bet you got a whole filled up basement

i got a boyfriend

ignore

i got a boyfriend

you are going to hell !

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