Hi My name is Mark,
I'm In the same boat as the Gambler was when he was 22.
However I lack his drive and inteligence.

So now I'm seperated and 40 with no fashion sense and limited confidence.
I'm looking to improve my outlook.

Ive joined Richards uni, but I'm not in the position to go to boot camp let alone residential.

I live in southampton, I was wondering is there any local members.
and Until I improve enough to qualify to be a wing man.
it'd be great if I could observe someones day or night game.

I have the theory I just need the practice and some pointers.
Thanks for reading

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Welcome to the community buddy. My advice would be to just get out there and practice, practice, PRACTICE! And if you havent done so already, read "The Rule of the Game" by neil strauss its page for page GOLD. Good luck mate!

Not too late!

Mystery had his own show called "The Pick Up Artist" and on it featured a 40 yearsold virgin; we also have the Father of the Pick up community Ross Jeffries whose 52

Welcome!

its never too late dude, 40 is mid life so its not a worry, never forget us men gain attractiveness over time (life experience/confidence/job/alpha male status etc) while women's attractiveness (fertility and looks/bod/beauty) diminish with age.

(not that you're old but...) theres a reason being called a ''silver fox'' is a compliment for men

i agree with the above, read ''The Game'' by Neil Strauss and may i suggest, go somewhere in southhampton you never go (so you can be sure never to run into these girls again) and shamelessly copy the stuff out of the book just to get some experience approaching.

good luck

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oh and regarding no fashion sense...

jeans + shirt + shoes (loafers or some shit)
with a decent hair cut (assuming you have hair)
and either a nice watch (if you dont have one then no watch)

now you have fashion sense

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It's never to late mate. I'm 45 learned pickup when it first appeared in late 80,s got divorced 2 years ago after 18 years and the amount of women on the market at our age is huge, much better and easier than our twenties. Even basic game will give you a 40% FC strike rate. Learn and practice, practice, practice.

Thanks Guys

I'll be taking baby steps, already my innergame is improving. I'm acting on situations as they occur. A.t.m. day game as I havn't been out at night for ten years or more.

I don't want to be a mpua I just want to find an 8 or above and keep it casual.
Although I guess it can be quite addictive.

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