hey,

just trying to get myself out the friendzonw with this girl, we hadnt done anything sexually for about 5 months, but with advice on here and si ive been trying to dig myself out..

last week we went out had a really good day, went back to hers, and we drunk in the garden till late, we were pretty wasted..

got into bed and i thought fuck it! so started playing with her, she didnt say no, she got wet and enjoyed it..then for what ever reason it stopped afeter about 10 mins and i passed out lol...

my questions: where do i go from here? she didnt touch me or kiss me, was she just using me cause she was drunk?
the next day i brought it up and said was that ok and she was like yeah but i dont want to talk about it..

and my main question is.. Can i have a go at her for being selfish?

shes now gone cold again (4 days later), spoke to her tday and she didnt seem keen on doing anything, but she said we can do something thurs or the wknd if i want..

where do i go from here? i believe shes a social butterfly so fucking hard work!

cheers guys