Just signed up and wanted to introduce myself..


I am fairly attractive guy, quite short too, who does get digits here and there but I am absolutely terrible at approaching girls in clubs/bars.
It dawned on me recently how I have such a good structure in sales yet when it comes to woman... its like theres a part of me that just fucks it up.
I believe in the LOA and that you get what you put out. Part of me fears rejection like the next man and I think it comes across if you when you think you are playing it cool. I am here quite simply to learn and improve on my game.

I have a very funny personality and can always make people laugh, but in typical style - when I really need it, I tend to come out with stuff that doesnt work well.

I have this belief, and excuse me if it sounds silly, but if a girl fancies you and likes you enough to go out on a date with you, then nothing (nearly nothing) should prevent a relationship occuring providing your not a rebound or a retard.
I have found myself being rejected by girls on a few dates recently and am going fucking nuts about it.

How dare she??!

Am I that bad?!?

Bitch !

Truth is, I kind of know that I am not doing anything to stimulate the mind or arouse and so I know I have to change things. YES, I am hard on myself but (e.g.) Foxtons was built and sold for £400m by a man who was in the Army, not the Ballet.


On a more positive note, I have started to realise that I have the ability ( I think we all do) to Influence someone remotely by thought. How do I know?...

Well let me start by saying that I dont have long hair, smoke weed and believe everything I read. I test everything in my life until I believe in the theory .. and boy.. have I tested this and does it work.

I can stand infront of someone and ask them to name me something they hate.

i.e. I hate 'marmite' said one of my friends.. within two mins they turn round and ask me if I have any marmite as they want it!
I think I have helped to influence situations with girls recently as I perfect this.. but I still feel I need a structure and something to give me more confidence with everything.


Its possible that this has been discussed on the forum before. I apologise if this is old news as I am new to it.

Anyway.. would also like to meet guys in London who go out on the pull and try stuff out.

Thanks for reading.


J

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here to learn.. thats all.