Hey fuckermen;

I met this girl in a club about 1 month ago. She was with a friend. Looked at her and saw IOI. Rocked up to her after few min with so much energy told her wow, you look REALLY friendly!!!! And then she (had to be) in a very friendly way said aa, thank you.

Just when she said that I truned to her friend and started talking to her friend. The friend loved me and we had half an hour chat I TOTALLY ignored the one I liked.

After half an hour I invited them to dance floor, as we go there, I start kino ing the first one that I liked,,, surprisingly she started to respond really good. Hand hand, great, holding,, awesome, smelling her,,perfect.. After 10 min of dancing she goes: I thougth you like my friend, I said hey what does it look like? Why would I be holidng u if I liked her??

Anyways, it was really good night. I facebooked her my number and she textet me a week later saying shes going out. Accidentally I was there at the saame club as well, so she comes with her friend and grabs me and hugs me from back crazy IOI all over. She asked me to go to another club with them but I couldnt. I was waiting for a friend there,,,anyways they leave after 10 min dissappointed. She sent me a text saying:

Last weekend I called her told her to go out for dinner with me, she said she has this work thing but she's gonna let me know.

She sent me a text the day after saying she cant make it. I msg back: Maybe next time

Now, this was 5 days ago. Should I msg her aske her out for this weekend? Or should I pretend she dont even exist? I havent been clear with ehr how much I like her.

What would you do?

Thanks

Well, you wouldn't go to the other club with her, she couldn't go to dinner with you. Now you're even. This isn't over yet. Keep gaming and good luck!

Well said, thanks;

I guess I'll wait till Wed night, will send her a text ask her on a date for Friday night.

First of all, don't ask her to dinner. That was a mistake. IMO, dinner is a huge-to-do and it's old fashioned. It forces the 2 of u to sit across from eachother for an extended period of time. That's uncomfortable for woman and I'm not surprised she flaked. I'll be surprised if she responds back to u at all anymore.

Secondly, stop saying the word date and definitely don't voice that to her. Sure u got solid IOI's but make the next face-to-face attempt like u impromptu-style just thought about doing XYZ activity, she popped into your head and not someone else because u remember her mentioning blah blah blah.

Either that or ask her if she wants to meet u for a drink at xyz bar (in an area that's convienient for her) and make it look like you're assuming both of u will go out with your friends seperately for the remainder of the night.

Ha Ha bit harsh on the old fella don't you think Paul? Sounds like someones just finished there first copy of the "Venutian Arts" :p

I don't know about you but I've had plenty of fantastic dinner dates, believe it or not some girls do like being taken out on "old fashioned" dates. And no, it is not supplicating your behaviour showing your interested (Actually Paul, being nervous to show that you're interested and deliberately being non-chalant is a form of supplication)

You gotta judge it dude, like chances are she just might not have been able to come.

If she's more of a loose party girl I'd say 'create the party' in your text messages and casually invite her to come along.

Just remember dude, as I hinted above if you have conveyed value and are confident she will want to see you again.

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You invited her, she turned it down, you said maybe next time so let her get back to you about that!

i agree

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I've never read that book but I want to. I think I'll read it next! Sounds like my kind of style!