So the last girl I hooked up with, it started out by hanging out one-on-one... we didn't go out on dates or anything. I was just hanging at her place and we started making out. However, the entire experience with her since them, before and after we fucked has been that she doesn't want to date but doesn't want to be treated like a fuck buddy... meaning treat her like I'm dating her. For honesty's sake, I even explicitly told her, before we slept together, that I'm not capable of anything beyond a physical relationship.

How do you guys starts a sexual relationship with a woman without letting the matters of dating complicate it?

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Depends on exactly what you want. If you want an actual relationship, then you could have one. If you just want to be FB's, then you can have that to.

I have two at the moment and simply told them that I didn't want a relationship before I got with them. (not in these exact words)

Can't remember how exactly I told the first, but the second was told "I think we should just be friends". This was after I made out with her the first night we went out and her coming by the house a few times. Not sure if that had anything to do with it, but figured I'd throw it in.

Now, with both, I simply ask them both to come hang out when I'm in the need. If they're free, then they come right over. If they're not, then I'm stuck. That's the thing about FB's. You have an understanding.

So if you want just an understanding, then you'll be stuck with them not being available. If you want a relationship, then they should always be available.

Hope this helps..

She gave you the answer right there - Treat her like you are dating her, just don't actually take her out on dates.

She is saying she wants to be treated like a whole human being that has value and is important to you (ie doesn't want to be treated like a slut or a piece of meat) but yet she doesn't want to officially date or be in a committed relationship.

This is a pretty good deal on your part. Just treat her like you actually like her and that she has value and meaning in your life but respect her space and dont try to get her to be exclusive with her or have any commitment with her one way or another.

Eventually she is going to find someone she wants to be involved with and will close the door on you but enjoy it while it lasts.

I'm not so much asking about this girl as I am about girls in general.

Basically, if I'm into a girl for no other reason than a fuck... how do I go about my 1 on 1 time with her (assuming it's on a day 2)? If she's a girl I'm seriously into I don't have an issue taking her out on a date, but if it's just to screw around I'm not sure how to go about a day 2.

Just invite her over to my pad for a movie/walk/beach day or something and escalate to f-close?

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