In answer to your question about why you don't hit back, only you really know the answer. There's tons of reasons that might pertain to you. Maybe it's because you wait to get hit first.

"I don't bust back because I shoot first" - Lil Wayne. Lol

Why did she hit you in the first place?

The whole reason i had gotten into the fight was for hitting her, your contradicting yourself there, if it was my choice i just wouldn't fight.

I think its because ive never had any experience in a fight before, other than when i was about 10 lol. The guy is actually a pussy, he punched me in the face on one side of my jaw and i literally felt nothing, he left me no marks after hitting me about 10 times after as well.

I used to do some karate a few years back and know the basics of punching, so i dont think that should be a problem, its just me never experiencing a fight before.

the longer the better, thanks though Akomplice
that is a definite, i hate starting fights so ill never swing first.
The girl is a slut, flirts with everybody regardless of her having a boyfriend or not(her AFC boyfriend clearly doesn't see this), i cant remember the exact situation but she was flirting a lot around me and she didn't like that i 'rejected' her, no physically contact from me to her, but she just punched me directly in the nose and i just reacted by hitting her back.

You left out the part where you wear a cup
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Boxing and MMA are, as you said, SPORTS. If you want real fighting skills, learn to FIGHT. Fighting has no rules; a real martial art will teach you to protect your groin, grapple, take cheap shots when they're available, and deal with real-life threats. A sport will teach you how to fight under a ruleset that does not allow the real dangers of fighting to exist.

damn, maybe i'm weird. but you touch me and i come fucking unglued. i will kill a motherfucker. almost have.

shit, just last week, i saw this prick driving through my town who got me fired from my job by framing me for his fuckup.

this guy lives like 100 miles away, i was getting ready to go into the grocery store to buy some bananas and green peppers (i like fruits and vegetables, good food). anyway, i'm like WHAT THE FUCK? i see that sonofabitch driving through MY TOWN. i put truck in drive, ripped my uniform shirt off, and chased him down.

i took the shirt off so that when i stomped him into a bloody mess for fucking me over financially and putting my family through hardship, it wouldn't have anything to do with my job.

i was GOING TO rip this guy's arm off and beat him to death with it. kind of shocked myself. anyways, at the last minute, a retarded chick on a bike with a clipboard pulled up right in front of me and blocked the exit from the grocery story parking lot. i was bouncing in my seat and screaming at the top of my lungs "GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY WAY!!!"

anyway, she smiled, waited a minute, and then peddled off, by that time prick-fuck had made his escape.

do you suppose that was divine intervention stopping me from getting a manslaughter charge?

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Oh, really? For fuck sake, he hit you that many times and you curled up into a little ball, and he's a pussy? This does not compute. You'll never swing last either. Sounds like you have no balls and no self respect. She hit you cuz she was pissed that she got rejected by a nutless pansy. You need to really change this part of yourself if you want to be seen as a serious contender for a woman.

No. Just 3 peoples paths crossing at the same time.

Girls dont punch people cos they get rejected

When I got gang bashed by( wanna be) gangsters I took every hits they gave me, I laid down playing dead so they would stop hitting me whilst I was lying on the ground. As soon as they stopped hitting me I felt something powerful take over my body, I didnt give a shit that I was injured and I got up straight away wanting a round 2 with them. Moral of the story is its not about how many times you get knocked to the ground but its how you stand back up!!

Seriously dont let that kind of shit effect your state of mind,in my opinion an Alpha is a characteristic, its how you carry yourself when you're alone.

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I always preach peace and I am against fighting. But my view on the issue can be explained best in the words of Malcolm X, "Be peaceful, be courteous, obey the law, respect everyone; but if someone puts his hands on you, send him to the cemetery."

I'm anti-violence in many ways, but i'm sorry, if someone punches me, guy or girl, i'm not going to stand there and take it. Out of self-respect I would hit them back. What gives a girl the right to hit you and expect nothing in return? Absolutely nothing. It's a case of being able to dish it out and take it.

I remember a few years back one of my mates got absolutely smashed in the face by some girl (who was arguably more of a guy!) for no reason at all, his nose was completely fucked up and his face was covered in blood. If it was me, i'd of floored her there and then.

Nothing to do with trying to be hard, but it's principles.

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Me personally have been brought up to never hit a girl by my dad because my mums first husband use to beat her. an iv been punched by one in the nose before bloody hurt aswell an it wasnt even my fault shes just a crazy girl with some serious issues the same night she kicked my mate in the balls lol. In the end of a good 30 minute argument with her big sister who became attracted to me for giving her shit lol i walked out the argument knowing i was right to warn her some lads will hit you an will hit you hard an that she was lucky.

But for fights with lads ill admit i get a rush out of them this saturday a pissed up idiot knocked one of my girl mates over whilst he was fighting with someone else he fell to the floor so i ran over went to hit him but thought to myself naaah i was this pissed up idiot 3 weeks ago when i drank an i saw the bouncers comeing so i let him off with a broken nose.

But yeah mate learn to fight visualise fighting , street fighting is probaly the only type of sport if you can call it that were i excell everythin else im clueless always stand up for yourself no matter how big they are im a small guy but i will attack bigger guys if they start an i will quickly get into a alpha stance an hold eye contact iv missed my hits once before an i watched this guy who had not long been out of prison panick he just didnt expect a small guy with hardly any muscles to be so aggresive.
Infact standing up for myself is the one thing that im most proud of in my life cos i was bullied all threw highschool now im an animal

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think the film 'old boy'

Sorry but I don't see anything Alpha in hitting a girl and letting a dude beat the crap out of me.

If a dude tries to get in a fight with him I will try to avoid it at first, but if its going down its going down.

Hitting a girl? And why would she punch you in the first place?

To all you guys saying you would hit a woman back if she hit you, I think that is a very un-alpha thing to do.

So what if she hit you and it hurt? Can an alpha male not show restraint? It's obvious that most of the time in that scenario the guy is gonna be bigger than the woman and cause more damage by hitting her back, you should just restrain her.

If it's a guy however, go for it.

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