Sup fellas,

currently suffering a bit from oneitis:

I have a nice relax trip planned with some buddies of mine this summer. a few weeks ago one started hearing me out about my ex-gf (broke up half a year ago) and asked me if I missed her. After having answered yes, without any warnings this guy decided to invite her along for the trip. She agreed ... (extra info: this is a trip with four couples, my ex-gf and I).

We broke up because we both had started new careers and had just reached that critical year and a half point. Small frustrations were piling up and we called it a break. In the mean time ive been with one other girl that she knows about.

I thought this would be a nice opportunity to maybe see if there's any potential for a fresh start. I asked her out but she flaked it the first time. She proposed to have a drink this week but seemed like she wanted to make it a quick one.

Any advice on how to handle this one? Ive never hooked up with an ex before but as far as I'm concerned I'd like to give it a new go. Somehow I feel like this one is gonna explode in my face though and create one very shitty holiday. How should I steer this conversation?

well I think shes in a place not sure about you being an afc or not but you are the toughest guy she knew and she wants to decide whether you are the one or not.so my advice is to act like she is a new target and play the game like you would play it with all others.

dont say anything like you want to come back and dont tel her you still have feeling for her.dont fall for her tests.
if she askes you do you still love me tell her:"of caurse like I love my other 15 female friends"...