Hi,

Wondering if I could get some advice on this. I am a 25 year old man who has been exclusively into gay sex and S&M for the past 10 years, however recently I have met a couple (man and a woman) who I would like to do a threesome with.

He is a primary school teacher (50 years old but super hot), who says he is 50/50 bisexual and versatile (can be both the giver and the receiver). She is a 21 year old college student who says that she is predominantly lesbian. They are into threesomes (have a bisexual girl who is their "friend with benefits") and S&M (she says she only dishes it out to other people and doesn't take it from anyone except her partner, he says that he is mostly known in the S&M world as someone who takes pain, but likes to warm up for that by dishing it out to other people).

I first met them a few weeks ago at a mainly straight bar. We knew each other through some bisexual friends of mine. That night I set them up with a straight girl I knew who was curious about trying bi.

Then last weekend I bumped into them at an S&M party (I'm into S&M with both men and women, but only receiving). She complimented me on how comfortable I was with being gay and then we chatted about their work and study. After a few drinks we decided it would be cool if he beat me with a cane. We did that in front of his girlfriend and then we made out for a bit. After that she beat him with the cane and then they went home.

They've got an ad up on a personals website saying that they want a bi guy (who is willing to let them do S&M to him) to have a three-way relationship with. I want to do a threesome with them where they both do S&M to me and fuck me in the ass (it says in the ad that she likes using strap-ons on guys). I have no urge to fuck either of them (I am completely bottom) and if she wanted me to lick her out, then I could, but I wouldn't get off on it.

I'm not sure what my next step should be. Should I contact them via their internet profile. If so should I cut to the chase about what I want, or invite them out to lunch or dinner or what? Or should I wait until the next time I see them out on the S&M scene?

Thanks in advance for any suggestions