So it started about mid april when me and a few mates (girls included) went for a trip interstate. Me and this girl really hit off, and although there was no kissing or anything, we just layed/slept in bed together after the music festival and had an amazing conversation. We get back home after the trip and i start seeing this girl abit more and one night all our other mates ditched us after another music festival, and caught the first cab they could find and left us two alone which was good but unintentional. We ended up kissing in the cab on the way home for a bit then went back to the hotel we were staying where again we had another amazing conversation and kissed. This happened for about 4 weeks and i was going to ask her out, but right before i did, some guy she use to see early in the year asks her out and she said yes. I want her more than anything as i think i am actually in love with this girl, and being an honest and genuine guy i dont want to break up a relationship, but at the same time i dont want to wait around until it ends (if it does). I think she has some form of feelings towards me as we always see eachother and spend time, but the fact of the matter is it kills me to be around her and not feel and show her the way a truly feel. I dont know if i should tell her stright that i do like her or should i wait. Im just confused and could really use some advice.

You my friend, have oneitis. Go find other women while she is taken, try again when she is single

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^^^Agreed^^^

You know why she chooses the other guy? Because that guy MAKES THE MOVES. You've been in bed with her in several occasions and you've only kissed and talked all night.

Grab your balls and make something happen, end of story.

the truth ^

This. You didn't act - 4 weeks of kissing and you considered asking her out?!

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