What tactics should I use on a girl who broke up with her BF three months ago? He was her first love and they were together for 5 years and she hasn't forgotten him yet. She is totally into me. When we are together, we always start to hug, hold hands and we even kissed last time.But the more she hugs me and such stuff, the more she is saying, that she doesn't want to have a BF never again and asks me to leave her alone and never meet her again. But then she hugs me so that her body language says: "Please, stay with me!" and she also calls me on phone every evening. She is 22 and I am 25.

How to make that her feelings for me will become stronger than her fear?

In contradiction, us guys, we can get over a break up pretty fast. Give us a new pussy and we are happy creatures. Girls therefor, they are more emotionally invested. That's why they can be devestated from a break-up! I've known girls who had to recover 2 years, from a break-up.

But they weren't able to touch another guy. Chill out, and give it time. She's opening up to you. But it will take effort. Make her feel comfortable i would say, don't put pressure on it.