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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 7:13 pm 
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If there's one thing I noticed about myself that I need to fix it is being more aggressive with girls. So how do I be aggressive and dominant and persistent?


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 8:18 pm 
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Here is my experience:

Dominance backfires very often. It mostly attracts weak and needy girls. And these girls bring many problems after you fucked them.

Most modern woman love gentle dominance or situative dominance. Not dominance at all. Let´s call it "focus". They want a man with a focus in life.

Focus is the better word and mindest. This whole alpha dominance stuff is often just a mess.

Give your girls a gentle focus on being sexual. It does not backfire so often like dominance games.

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In my case not being aggressive backfires. Girls have to literally shout that they want me to kiss them because Im not good at reading iois and I'm just a shy laid back person and I don't know how to lead.

Oh and ps I'm black. Almost every black guy I know is aggresive to girls and it works for them. And I'm in highschool


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high school can be a very strange place--the social norms there are quite weird when you look back at them in your college years--it gets better, just hang in there


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 1:07 am 
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See being aggressive and being able to lead are different, to lead all you have to do is make sure you are the one who is grabbing the attention. Make your voice heard, project, use physical gestures, speak in the PERFECT way. I'm in hs too i know how it can be. PM me if you need help with voice tonality, i have two ex military officers for parents so that is my dominating point.

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I'm naturally a very aggressive guy, my dad is an aggressive guy, my old as hell grandpa is an aggressive guy...

Being aggressive does not help. I lift weights and do MMA. That's my place to be aggressive. I've found over the years that being aggressive with women scares the hell out of them. Don't confuse confidence for being aggressive. Focus on being confident and happy and women will be drawn to you.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 6:38 pm 
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Don't confuse confidence for being aggressive. Focus on being confident and happy and women will be drawn to you.
Wow, PurePlaya. That´s a big one. Respect. That´s exactly what I also found out. I am a very confident dominant type of guy.

It mostly attracts short periods of time. Or emotional weak women.

What I learned: Be clear in what you want. But beside that be gentle, funny and kind.
You can be sexual aggressive and also funny, gentle and very charming.

Humor is a far, far more attractive quality for women.

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