Everyone tellin' me, "You're going to fall in love" blablabla, if my g/f popped my cherry.

The exact opposite happened. I didn't like the sex neither, so that didn't help this myth.

Anyways, I broke up with my ex shortly after doing her. So the last time we hung out was when we had sex.

I know girls get attached, but do guys get attached too?

Now that I think of it... I think the reason I didn't get attached was b/c I lost physical attraction for her. When I first met her she looked fine, but once we started dating... it's like she just gave up. According to mystery, a good percentage of men's attraction towards a women is physical appearance... And I can agree to this.

We were 14 and I broke up with her. So a week later we decide might as well have sex anyways (didn't go that well). Then I moved on. We got back together every couple years to smoke a joint and get it on. Definitely not love

Hmm, me and my first girlfriend 'lost it together', and it was my first proper relationship, so I supposed I was attached in a way.

She cheated on me in the end.. I think deep down i'm still a little envious about it all now. Then again it was only about 2.5 years ago..

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I didn`t get attatched to the girl I lost my virginity to mainly because she had a boyfriend. So I didn`t have enough access to her after the fact. However, I did get attached to the first girl who gave me sex "on the regular" (at least 3 times a week). I must admit, a little bit of wuss came out of me for about a month. However, once I realized what was going on (a friend pointed it out), I switched back to my normal self.

Not because she took my 'v card' but because she was and is a wonderful person.

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Let's get smashed and fuck all night!!

If anything I get more attached to girls now then when I first started having sex. Was pretty disapointing with my first few so I wasn't that bothered about getting it again from them.
The more girls I sleep with broadens by sexual horizons so I think of it as an experience that will always be topped by another girl in the future. I enjoy sleeping with the same girl because we each know what we like, although its great fun finding different things that different girls like, bring on the next ones I love new experiences!

she must have been watching over your shoulder

We were at a house party , she wanted a relationship because she didnt want to seem like a slag for sleeping with me , I said Maybe to being into the relationship and in an evil way I kind of lead her on and she got upset , my friend sat her down and started talking to her and comofrting her and then i went and shagged her on a blow up bed in a room that was full of other people.

I regretted it afterwards because I didnt wear a condom at first and their was a rumor going round at the time that she was getting kicked out her house and was going to try and live with me. So I pretty much avoided her and I didnt tell anyone that I shagged her so she didnt get labled as a slag. A few of her firneds tried it on with me after that but it didnt go any where.

Due to that reason I basicaly Smashed and Dashed and got away with getting into a relationship and we still talked occasionaly, I think I handled it pretty maturely when I was 15 but it was a long time after that till I next had sex again :\

But I understand the whole having sex and loosing attraction for them , I do it all the time and I cant help it , Its like when the cum flows the love goes

The moral of all of this is: If you don't want to get hurt, don't fall in love and don't get attached. I've been there and done that and I never want to go back. I've broke my own rule a few times and God it has cost me.

I think the worst part of the attachment and the oneitis is the sheer amount of damage it does to your game. The last incident almost destroyed my game altogether. Fuck that.

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