Hello guys, i am thinking of going out to the club alone this weekend. I'm suppose to go with my best friend but i cant depend on him, he usually comes up with an excuse not to go.(lol) anyways, i'm trying to build my social circle again because i've been on a LTR for some time so am starting from 0. What advice can you guys give on going to the club alone? im a pretty confident guy and im thinking of going alone, well groomed, and meeting a hot girl. So my concerns are, will it feel weird going alone? lol i'm pretty social. Anyways I would like some advice from guys that have gone to the club alone. did it work out? - (im 19, i have a car, and i have a room)

The times i have gone alone were a failure but im not social by nature (trying to change that though). But its gonna feel weird, i have no doubt about that. Asides from that i would recomend 2 thing:

1. If you have THAT BAR/CLUB, you know the one you always go and by now you know the barmans, owner, dj, barwoman. Start there to form your social circle

2. You probably would do best starting talking with the other alone people in there. You cant be the only one alone, use them for social proof (people will see you with someone else talkin) and for bridges with group of girl you want to approach (considering this person is sitting near them).

for me was like this: One night i went to my THAT BAR and i found a very metal HB8 in a group with a fat friend and 3 guy who were also metal (i dont know the slang for people who are VERY MUCH into heavy metal music) i was alone and honestly im not so much into music and didnt know any of then so i coudnt approach directly. Instead i went for a guy sitting in the next table watching intensily the table (wich was weird) so i start talking to him, sat in the table, after 3 min of conversation i use an opinion opener on the fat friend (she was the weak link of the group, always find the weaklink in any group if you can, is that one person who initiating a conversation is easier) and then i just star talking and changing seats with the excuse of hearing better. Talked to the whole group until i remained with her. At the end i didnt get her but after that i just contemplate the social butterfly act i pulle on.

My advice is best suited for bar i dont know about nightclubs. But again i dont know how are the nightclub were you live. Here the nightclubs are all loud music, no tables, just people dancing. So talking is near imposible

Thanks for your response, yea the clubs here are loud, very. I cant get into bars because im not 21 yet. But i could get into a couple of 18+ clubs. I could also get into 21+ clubs but that requires me to pay more, and the competition is intense because most of the guys are older, but my inner game is strong. It was interesting to hear about your solo clubbing experience, it was well played, is a shame you lost her hehe. I'm actually very direct, i saw the new "jeffy show 2" and his tactics are my style except im not an asshole.(lol) I would like to hear if anyone else has any club solo experience. Has anyone been successful while clubbing solo? that would be nice to hear and how.