Touching her hair - not a good sign



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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 1:14 pm 
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You say that most of the time, hair touching is a sign of nervousness? You must be giving off the wrong vibes bro. I'd say 9/10 the girl is touching her hair when i'm talking to her or around her to give attention to it for obvious reasons. "look how sexy I am"

There are always those girls who think they are models and carry that attitude, which can be very cute. I notice it more with highschool and younger college girls more than anything. They will turn their head so you get a side profile, and they are glancing into the distance. They may squint their eyes and puff their lips up a little to tighten their face. Then they will squeeze the back or side of their hair to fluff it up, pumping up the volume. They are little divas, trying to exude sexiness

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It's just something I noticed while observing human behavior. If the girl is flirting with you and touching her hair, it's a whole different thing, I thought this was clear by now. Cheers!

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PostPosted: Tue May 31, 2011 9:13 pm 
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If she's touching her hair, while looking at you in a flirty way and so on, yeah then she's attracted.
I thought that was implied :P

seriously everbody get's it when she's just touching her hair while being pissed off or whatever ^^


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I don't think everybody gets that! Oh well...

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think about it this way..

I don't know if you've noticed but a large amount of men also touch their hair like girls do..

i admit I do this quite a lot too, and sometimes I DO do it from being uncomfortable, but it's not a bad uncomfortable - it's like I feel the other person is overpowering me sexually- if you get what I mean..

people do it to 'fix' their hair so it looks good. but sometimes people do it so much that they don't even realize they're doing it anymore (sort of becomes a tick)..so theyll automatically do it whenever theyre in the presence of someone they think is attractive ..

and it can be a sign of nervousness, BUT like i said earlier, it's not a bad nervousness.. it can be the nervousness of "oh what am I going to say if the person tells me something' etc. etc. like they want you to approach, but they're nervous that you will at the same time.

I believe this is much more common among shy/timid girls and not so much for confident girls. I once dated a girl who during our first few weeks of talking she'd pretty much almost put her whole back to me and play with her hair like crazy.- definitely recognized the IOI because she played with it like crazy, but- she had trouble facing me. So I just wondered wtf is up with this girl does she like me or not? But when we weren't together in person, she'd always want to talk to me. This was lack of confidence on her part, some girls are just shy. Just for the info, she hit me up about 2 weeks ago pretty much implying that she wanted to fuck.

99.9% of the time the girls will be playing with their hair for male attention, they want you to notice them- and remember that a lot of girls aren't confident and very shy around men they find attractive. Don't think of it as a bad thing.


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If she has her arms crossed and playing with her hair at the same time, there's no way it's attraction, she's just uncomfortable and maybe nervous.


It is a Close Gesture on body language when her arms are crossed and not a good sign..

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