I have read somewhere in this forum that girls would decide if they want to sleep with you within seconds of meeting you and I find this odd because it takes more than seconds to get to know the person then decide if this is the person to sleep with. Can you tell me more about this? And how can I make an impression to be "that guy" she would potentially sleep with? I happen to had a conversation with a couple of my good HB8 friends (they have already put me in friends zone long time ago ). This conversation goes like this:

DP: "Is it true that girls would decide if they would sleep with a guy within few seconds of meeting a guy?"

HB 8-1: "What? Within seconds? No, I wouldn't think about sleeping with a guy within seconds, I would think if i would want to keep talking to him"

HB 8-2: "Right. It is really depends on girl's mood, If a girl looking for a lay then she would decide if she would want to sleep with a guy but most of the time, girls would decide if the guy is interesting and worth to keep talking to"

DP: *Laughs* "Interesting." (I was thinking that they might be denying that this is true)

Girls deciding to sleep with guys is something that they subconsciously make or is it some sort of girls' secret decisions?

Girls sum you up within 15 seconds of seeing you. In that time they have decided if they want to fuck you or not. Its not all the time as the second HB said to you it does depend on their mood. Usually in those 15 seconds the girl has decided if she is willing to talk to you or not.

yeah - there'll be plenty of more experienced people on here than me to tell you what they think, but for me, I reckon that within the first 15 or so seconds they have decided whether they might be willing to sleep with you - not whether they will or not.

If after a couple of minutes you turn into a boring dweeb, you could ruin your chances - it's not just set in stone because of a good opening 15 seconds.

But on the other hand, if the first 15 seconds are crap, chances are you're not going to be able to pull it back.

i would say an even better way to put it, is this:

within the first moments of meeting you, a woman will subconsciously either be or not be sexually attracted to you.

"attraction" is not about intellect or getting to know someone. "attraction" is a raw, primal urge to mate.

it happens quickly. or not.

like the previous poster said, it's doesn't mean that a woman WILL sleep with you, it doesn't even mean necessarily that she MIGHT sleep with you, it is more about whether she is ATTRACTED to you.

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'Attraction is not a choice' she cannot help whether she is attracted to you or not. You can be displaying the most likely traits she might be attracted to but ultimately IF she is attracted then you can get in there- if not you cant.

A girl will make her first decision whether you qualify as fuckable in 15 seconds. But that's only the first of many of those decisions before you get her into bed.

She will constantly be looking for reasons to weed you out.

As it's been already said, they let you try to "convince" them.
If they don't reject you at first sight, the game is on, and you have to game them.

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