Ok, so personally, I find it to be much easier to open girls on the street and in public transport than it is to do so in clubs.

I was walking home yesterday at three oclock at night and a girl walks towards me on the empty street. As she was about to pass me by I stop her with my finger and just say "Hi".. [situational opener]". So she stops and starts talking to me - I walk away with a promising new contact.

Personally I have this dejavu brain so every time I see a girl I get the feeling that I've seen her before. So that's what I use as my situational. And it works great because it's fully honest and natural for me to say such things. I just blurp out whatever I feel like saying "in the moment". Like "I have this feeling that I've seen you somewhere before. You look familiar." She thinks.. replies "maybe".. now she is interested.. so we start talking.

Then close with "We should meet again sometime." Don't ask for the number right away. See how she responds. If she says "sure" then you say "I can take your number and call you later during the week. She gives you her number.

If you are too quick and go directly for the number then it makes her nervous and she might say "why do you want my number" or just brush you off. But when you have led her to that question using another more innocent one that you asked before then it would just make her feel stupid to back out and so goes with it.

I used to have a lot of trouble just getting the numbers but it was simply because I was not doing it right. The key is to use SUGGESTIVE language and not direct. SUGGEST to meet - as in "We should meet again some time. [wait for response]". DON'T ask "Would you like to meet again sometime?"

Once you have her number, what you do next depends on what you have PREEMPTED her with on the night before. If you said for instance that "We can meet some time later this week." Then don't say anything for a few days. Let her wait. After 2-3 days you CALL her and schedule a date.

On the other hand if you haven't prepared her for anything ahead of time then its BETTER to sms her the next day and simply say that it was nice meeting her last night. Don't suggest anything until she replies. Just message her so that she knows that IT'S OK for her to contact you back. If she is interested SHE WILL answer and write something back.

In selling, preempting means to prepare the customer mentally for what you are about to say next so that it doesn't come as a surprise. Well women are people so with them it works the same way. When you preempt during the conversation it's a lot easier to have the conversation going without too many roadblocks along the way.

This way you can easily pick them up in under 5 minutes on trains, on the streets and virtually anywhere else AND get them out on at least one date afterwards so they get the chance to get to know you better.

Thanks for the advise, was a good read.

I agree.
But I'm curious though, what's your follow-up after Hi, if she doesn't immediately starts a conversation with you, to be honest I think she will be waiting for you to explain why the hell you stopped her.

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Ok you said "3 at night". Now was this 3 am or pm???

Other than that very interesting

I guess it depends on how you say it. Because I've used that opener before and usually I get a blank expression like she's thinking "why is he talking to me" and then she says "no I don't think we know each other". I don't know what to say to that so we just part ways.

I think the best response to that negative situation is to introduce yourself and then now she does know u. And hopefully it goes from there

It has worked for me a few times and usually met with a laugh which is good. If there isnt a good response just say my bad and move on

It was 3 am..

If there isn't a good enough response just say "I get thing with my brain that makes it have dejavu experiences all the time.. do you not get that sometimes as well? (laugh)". If no response still.. "do you know like when you see someone walk by and you are completely sure that you have seen them somewhere before? It's soo weird..".. then change the subject..