So Im stuck with problem that i created over this year. Im no PUA far from that but when i got out I m the guy who likes to have fun and girls pick that right away I think subconcious im flirt with them Im not trying to hit on a women im just having some good time. But the problem that my current persona atract girls that I want ONLY has friend I really like them to hang out some are fun as hell and hey its good way to wide your circle of friends.And this is fucking me because some girls will chase me all night long at that point I turn the switch and try to be there gay friends, try to seriously listen to there probelms and turn off the cockness and playfull but at this point i have the sensation is irrelevant. I cant walk off because some of them make part of my social circle nowadays sooner or later i will have to hang out with them and i didnt want to cut off with them

For example one girl ruin the chances with one of her best friends who was HB. And for another example I went out last satuday we were at the club and I saw this cute girl who I knew (but never talk to her). She was being hit by a loser and I saw she was bored went to save her 2minutes after i did this , one my friends got jeaousy and went to talk amog or something.

What should I do? this is happens to you guys?

I'm gonna guess, since you look like your having a good time and not obviously hitting on women, that your indirect. Indirect can work obviously just like anything else, but if your REALLY social and you never escalate or isolate, or when you do you cant seem to turn the vibe sexual, I think you end up with what you got.... of course though, being really social and having fun isn't bad! But try to find a moment where you turn it sexual with a girl, youll find that youll get more rejected but youll avoid the stuff youve been running into recently at least, and go too the girl that wants you inside her..

SOrry but i wasnt explicit I mean im have a good time with my friends and this attract some girls that I wish it wouldnt because some of them are really cools girls and some Im getting to know and I didnt want to cut contact right away this is my girlfriends , BUT when I meet a girl IF I LIKE HER I go game her and I go very direct I go sexual I use what I know of my PUA skills