Ok so Ive already pretty much ruined my chances with this girl,

So i fked up my chances with this girl by having Escalation anxiety, i'm just going to forget about this girl now although if i see her in a club some time which i most likely will, i'm gonna escalate like crazy with her and see if i can whip up some of the old attraction.

So here's my questions -_-

I know being put in the friends zone is going to make it super hard, now i didn't get put in the friends zone but if the girls attractions fizzles out purely because i didn't escalate; and we both knew i could of, will it be possible to regain attraction.

Now judging by how the fast she doesn't show interest to me online or by text anymore will it be possible to 'step up' once more if i saw her in person?

so basically in a face to face situation is it possible to get regain attraction, as obviously its impossible online if so how hard is it?
bearing in mind i haven't been put into the friends zone

just try if you see her again, but don't think about it! It doesn't matter...

next girl you meet, just kino more
That's the thing you should learn from your situation!

easier said then done haha