Basically i like this older girl who's really hot but her best friend likes me and her best friend is like a 7 i haven't really talked to either of them until recently when the girl i like best friend started texting me and now were texting but we haven't talked face to face now im worried that if i carry on texting her that she will start to think i like her back when really what i want to do is tell her that im not interested in her and i like her best friend so what should i say and do ??

Being honest is by far the best thing you can do.

Tell her about the situation. She can feel upset for some time, but later on she will see that it was for the best. Maybe you could keep a mystery about who you like, but be honest telling her that you are not interested.

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can i make a suggestion?

friendzone her, girls do it to us but we can do it to them too
keep ALL of the texts between this other girl away from sexual or romantic things and progressively say how cool it is to have a girl that gets you and all that mushy emotional stuff they dig and then say its great that you guys are friends etc etc just think whats happened when you've been FZd

that way when you go for the chick you like you can say "i thought we were just friends" regarding her mate and the other girl will be able to save some face because she wont have publicly screamed out her love for you.

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oh yeah just to let you know this girls best friend told me that she liked me when we were texting.

knowing she likes you is no reason not to FZ her, if you like someone else you like someone else. seeing to her bf needs is not your responsibility mate

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oh right thanks for the help.