Last week , there are one event held for the freshmens.

On that day , there is this girl really caught my attention . she didnt want to join the activites or mixed around with others freshmen . She just there at the conner there alone when the ice breaking seassion being held . i approaches this girls and ask why she didnt want to join bla bla bla... i didnt had the thought to game or get her hp or anything . i just did what a senior should do . encourage her to join and mixed around...

On that moment i walk toward and had a talk with that girl.... i am being watched...

i didnt knew it until today , one of my girl friend told me that one of the girls(Y.A) is talking back about me . Y.A told all the girls that i am so perverted/ desperate/horny .... its all just because i talk to that fresh-women...

There is someone who seem more desperate and obvious that i do ... but you know what Y.A told them ? He is the most perfect guy among all the guys...btw that "perfect" guy is his fren ...

since the day i enter the school i didnt talk with Y.A because i think she is too hard to approache due to her hyperactive atitude and her tom-boyish self... i can say that , i manage to had a normal conversation with all the girls same year as i do except Y.A.

On that freshmen event , i manage to had a few words with her ,after 1 year, ...i still remember i manage to make her laugh ...


What should i do when i see Y.A in future ? ignore her ? I really felt unhappy bout this when my girl friend told me that Y.A talk back bout me ...It is so wrong to approach and talk to someone with a good intention ? If a guy talk with a girl is called horny/perverted , what about girl who talk to guys ?

Pls guide me guys ... confuse here bros...

Act like she doesnt bother you. By acting like she affected you gives her value etc.

Its tough to ignore what she did or say but dont show how you feel and how she made you feel i.e. affected by what she said.

Jealous ex girlfriend method which limits her power and blah blah blah

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ermm... when i meet Y.A , is it just being normal and have a normal conversation with her ? or just ignore Y.A ?
Validus my i ask what do you mean by jealous ex gf method ? is it a skill ?

thank for replying guys

Why would you want to talk to this girl at all? Just don't talk to her. If she asks why, tell her the truth. "You were talking behind my back and I don't appreciate it." That's it.

No need to hide this just as much as there's no need to act on this.

It's a method/ routine that basically says that the girl is being a pest and shouldn't really be taken seriously. But on second thought, it's not really the best thing to say. I would suggest talking to her and bring out the truth like Little Panda said.

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