my most recent ex, has been contacting me for the last month. In late april, it was decided we wouldnt talk anymore. Since than I havnt initiated a conversation with her one time. However, quite often i will get an email, and it's like she wants to have conversation but she just acts very standoffish through out the short converstaion. It would appear she doesn't get anything at all from our interations... yet she continues to send me shit and she just stays neutral. she hasnt at anypoint recently shown she wants to get back together and hasnt mentioned anything about her missing me, but the email's still come. Im going to assume since its been over a month and she has yet to say anything about her missing the relationship, she is just lonely and bored. what do you all think?

forgot to mention, it was a one year relationship and overall was going alright until the last month, we didnt break up over cheating, lying, fighting... she ended the realtionship because one night I messaged a family member of hers telling them to watch the ex, because in the past she had hurt herself over things regarding me, turnsout the family member had no idea and it caused a big ruckus

She's probably not over you. And although she may not want to get back together with you, she probably wants you to have her on your mind at all times.

Girls can be sneaky that way. They hate when you don't pay attention to them . Even if you've broken up.

women want validation.

they also want beta orbiters.

what better addition to the cosmic beta orbiter ring,

than a recent ex.

that's gotta make her ego swell!

as long as she has no contact with you, she can't deny you have moved on.

but if she keeps you on some sort of "leash", she feels like she still matters to you.

it's sneaky (emotional terrorism) bullshit.

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