What is the best way to deal with a girl playing hard to get and flaking? We set up dates but she always bails because she has other stuff to do with her other guy friends...

get a new chick. introduce them. she'll be jealous and fall right into your arms.

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bingo

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Haha if I had a new chick I wouldn't be concerned about this one...

That's the whole point. Get lots of new chicks so that no individual one chick will distress you.

You are wasting your time with this particular gal.

Its funny but its so much easier getting other girls when you have a oneitis. Because you are not hell bent on getting those other girls so you become more difficult for them.

If you do that she will come round eventually but dont start dropping plans for her.

She is so used to you asking her out that if you stop for a few weeks she will ask herself why? why is the most difficult question to answer because there could be so so many reasons and no doubt it will get her intrigued etc.

One advice from my side, never have plans after a freeze.

Remember we're doing a freeze, when something went wrong. So there was already a mistake, or a decision from her against us.

So don't tell yourself, after the freeze everything changes...because if it doesn't you'll be in the fucked up situation again...and this is what most of the guys out there are doing, they're spinning in circles...round and round...so it's your turn....

Break out !!

Guys you are mis-interpreting the situation. I don't have a one-itis. This girl is just hot as hell. 9.5 body, 9 face. I have a 7 I am banging, but I just want to move up lol. Plus I've only known her for about two weeks and only seen her twice. So far just some passionate kissing...


Anyway here is the update: she called me at 1am last night and I ignored her. Then she called me this morning and invited me over to sleep at her friend's who she is staying with )).

Here is what I learned: If a girl plays hard to get/ flakes. Ignore her completely. If she calls you at absurd times, again ignore her completely and then call her out on it.

Gona have to game her friends tonight as well as her, wish me luck I am going in for the laaaay!

Don't listen to what these guys are telling you man. If you want to get a girl that plays hard to get, you must be extremely daring with her. For example, next time you see her, take her hand and twirl her around and say "You look nice today." That gets you MAJOR, MAJOR points. She'll initially think you're weird and whatnot but out of all her stupid guy friends, you were the only one that could do that to her. Now no matter what, stay NICE. Do not get sad, do not get mad, do not break rapport whatsoever!