Hey guys,

First of all, lovely to join these forums Just as I skimmed across all the different boards on these forums opened six more tabs - I have the feeling I'm going to love being here!

I'm 19 years old and currently a student in England - more importantly, I had my first threesome last week. It was great but now I'm having to deal with the repercussions - we basically ran into half the people from my year while going back from the club. Result: EVERYONE knows and is judging me for it. It's obviously not a problem for the guys as they respect me for it, but I've received weird looks from a couple of girls since and one girl told me today: "Threesome? Really? I didn't think you were that kind of guy."

I basically froze up as there were two other girls and a good friend of mine in the same room, and just didn't know how to react. I already had a campus stud/manwhore reputation before the threesome and this just made it worse. What should my attitude towards this be? I feel like there's so much talk about me behind my back and I can't do anything about it.

What should I do?

edit: I'd like to add that I'm not some insecure asshole trying to get with as many girls as possible for the kick of it. I'm just enjoying life and trying to find a great girl to settle down with eventually

This is a forum for people who are interested in becoming PUAs aka be able to build attraction with MANY MANY girls, and possibly sleep with ALL OF THEM.
If you ask ANYONE on here, they WILL tell you that threesome is a DHV and they would want EVERY girl know about it.
Again, who gives a fuck about what people think about you? Your best bet is the ones that spread the rumor are either jealous or envy with you.
And you claim that you're not insecurity so stop worrying about what ppl talk behind your back. You make your own reality, they let people and society shape it the way they want.

if you dont want to look like a manwhore i'd say just make it obvious that you respect women, including the two you hooked up with and most importantly do not either brag OR be embarrassed by what happened its your sex life and it was totally consensual (and fun )

just answer honestly if a dude says "hey whats it like to bang two chicks at once" you just say "ye it was good fun, they were lovely girls. really interesting people" and leave it at that, let everyone else guess what kind of kinky shit you guys got up to.

and if a girl says "a 3some really i thought blah blah" you can reply with a similar thing being honest and humble and polite.

it will blow over soon and people wont care just wait for cheryl cole to do something stupid

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Good advice all around above.

Just don't lose your cool and keep calm about it. Don't brag.

When a girl like says "really..... blah blah blah" like that you can just repeat exactly what you said here. That you're living your life to the fullest and trying to enjoy your youth.

And honestly if they're going out of their way to say something to you that means that they are interested. If they were truly disgusted with you they wouldn't want to talk to you. So chances are she's jealous...probably wanted to be one of those two girls

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Thanks for the replies, I definitely feel better about this now. The heat on this topic has definitely cooled down and people aren't hooting out of windows anymore. It's just that feeling you get when you know everyone is talking about you - it's a horrible one, and you know that even if you had the best of intentions, you can't defend yourself against gossip that's going on behind your back. You can only prove people wrong by showing them face to face that you're a decent guy.

Anyway, I learned a lot from this lesson and life is good.