i agree with mack ... it takes 2 to cheat eh

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I still don't buy into this.. why does it? How is the guy at all cheating if he's not in a relationship? If he's aware that she is cheating, then at best I think it questions your morals.

My first proper girlfriend cheated on me, I found out who the guy was, and tried to arrange a meet with him so I could (attempt to) kick the shit out of him. But after I calmed down, I realised that he wasn't the problem, she was. If I was him i'd of done exactly the same thing. If a gorgeous girl comes onto you, and is willing to sleep with you, I think in the long run you'd regret the missed opportunity. Yes there are many girls out there, but if she's willing to it it, it's not your place to worry in my opinion.

People's opinions will differ. I'm not saying i'm right, not saying i'm wrong. I can just definitely see where Hallpass is coming from.. (no pun intended )

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Lack please tell me you are bold faced lying in your post. If you really stop talking to a girl cause she cheated on a previous bf....hmm well how bout u just intro her to me lol. I find it absolutely hilarious people are somehow offended by a girl cheating. Everyone cheats. I don't know why you wouldn't fuck a girl who cheated on a previous bf. Its sex, not a relationship you should be wanting from her.

I have a theory on this weird oneitisy type of thinking. If you have zero girls, all you want is one. If you have one, you may just want her, but chances are you want alot more. I feel like there are a substantial amount of people on this board who like the idea of pick up WAY more than actually doing it. If you have been really into picking up girls, or girls period, you would know the vast majority will cheat. Its just how it goes. Most guys are beta afcs. If you create an exciting SPAM, you can get her wrapped up n smash. Next if you think he's manipulative, please never ever ever read up on nlp. Your head might explode, n who would want that? If a girl at some point after attraction tells me she has a bf, I just think oh a little bit of a challenge. I haven't hooked up with many girls with bfs, some actually are loyal, but it makes no difference. I have hooked up with friends girls before, n have friends who have fucked their gf's best friend when they were together lol. Maybe I just come from different circumstances, but if you have a girl, its probably not a good idea to leave her around me or my roommates (also 2 of my best friends, 1 since I was 13).

The real question to ask yourself is, who are you not fucking girls for? For god, or some abstract idea of divinity? Or do you not want to upset a random girls bf u have never met? If you wont fuck a girl who cheats im just laughing at you. *points n laughs*...we'll there's my beer for breakfast rant ...can I get an amen and halleluah from all the guys who don't give one fuck if a girl has a bf, n instead give that fuck to her?

Amen and halleluah from me, 100%.

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i still don't understand .. if you can get every woman out there why fuck one that has a boyfriend ... i've picked up chicks that had boyfriends but i never had sex with them , only interacted with them to practice my game.

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lol dude, come on, what does that even mean? So a girl has to be totally monogamous for you to bang her? Are you saying you wouldnt even do a girl even when she isnt in a relationship, but you know she's banging other guys? Come on dude, I know the definition of cheating, and I know that she probably has sex with her boyfriend.
Clever play on words, touché! How on earth do I deserve an assbeating? I know it is a bad thing what I did, but in the end it was the girl who made the wrong discissions, regarding to her relationship. She started texting, she flirted back and she proposed to stop by at my place, to watch a movie. At a random guy's house. Yes I definitely deserve an assbeating right now!

Yes, I meant the fact that kinorc said that you were probably hurt in a previous relationship. This happened to be true. How can you be dissapointed in me (us), if I am (we are) just doing what all the strategy on this whole forum teaches us?
Dude, attraction happens, she initiated contact. I provided her with my number, she used it, she suggested to come over. I don't think there was a minute she thought: Hmm I'm stopping by at a guy's house who I have just met, asked if his parents are at home and I will just have some tea and if I'm lucky, I might get some cookies

She wanted to have sex with me from the start, so therefore I also think your arguments of me being a manipulator are invalid. If this would fall under the category manipulation, this forum might as well be called the 'master manipulation forum', since everyone on here does it more or the less.

I never said that because I got out of a relationship, I want to be with taken girls. I just want to be with girls in general. I liked her, she liked me as well. Like you said, she is prone to cheating, so why shouldnt I help her out then?

I did know I wanted to fuck her again, you're right. That wasn't the question though, I asked what I should do if I ended up liking this girl. I did find out she's together with her boyfriend for over a year already. And knowing that she is disloyal made me decide that I wont get into a relationship with her. However, being FB's could be a good alternative.

What is your definition of picking up then? Like I stated before, since I am just out of my relationship, I became quite an oppurtunist. When there is mutual attraction between me and a girl I like, then I usually just go for it. Obviously, when I know the guy a girl is with, then she is a no-go.

Not true. A lot of people have more self-control than you do. Not everyone cheats, and some people have morals. Some girls and guys sleep with lots of people at once, but that's because they aren't in an exclusive, committed relationship. And it's not cheating if you're not in an exclusive relationship.
But if I met a girl with your attitude, that it was OK to cheat on her boyfriend, i might fk her, but I would never be in a relationship with her. Thinking it's perfectly OK to cheat is a dealbreaker.

Confirm Would never want to be with a girl who you know from she's able to cheat, nor would I ever cheat in a committed relationship. What would even be the point of having a relationship if you share yourself with others? It's about keeping yourself exclusive for that one person, unless you have made an agreement on an open relationship/being FB's.

Wow a lot of hatred in here. Cheating isn't ideal but I have trouble blaming a person for trying to find their happiness. All situations/relationships are unique and to say what is universally right or wrong is a foolish endeavor.

But to anyone that wants to play in tricky situations, be ready to man-up if things turn shitty.

I never said I could get any girl out there. I COULD, but I don't get every single girl I want. If I want a girl tho, a bf isn't gonna slow me down. I don't get why you wouldn't fuck a girl with a bf. I don't know u welllode, but I think u may have a fairy tale view of relationships. Please don't take offense to that because I will clarify my point now. I think that you have the idea that when someone is in a relationship, they belong to the other person n complete them. So hooking up with someones other half is making each unwhole. Owed to that viewpoint, it is absolutely devastating to anyone who shares it, to know their significant other was with another man. The fact is, each person is completely whole by themselves. If two people in a relationship have a deep spiritual connection, sex should not be a factor. Meaning, if you truly love someone, you shouldn't try to make them conform to any set behaviors and rules. They should also give you the same respect. Next honesty must come into play. If you are in a relationship n want to fuck someone else, do it. Afford your gf the same respect to freely experience all life has to give. Then be honest about it.

That is normally never the case, but that more aligns with my fairy tale relationship. I in no way want to own a girl. I want to share parts of my life with hef and enjoy her doing the same. More often than not tho, girls that cheat aren't happy in their relationship in the first place, yet aren't secure enough to be on their own yet. So they stay in toxic relationships they don't enjoy, n r just waiting for something new and exciting to cone along. When it does, she goes for it.

So lobe, how did you find out your old girl was cheating?