Previous sunday I had to help shoot a promotional video for a girls student association. There were some pretty hot chicks there and most of them were actually pretty interested in me, most of them I have never met before. Most of them heard the rumours that I banged a chick who was in the executive committee of that association though.

The girl I liked most (HB8) happened to show a lot of interest in me, I definitely caught some IOI's. Later that day when I got home I added her, along with some of the other girls I met that day on facebook. She immediately replies on my first status-update and it evolves in a long thread with the two of us spamming my wallpost.

I send her a private message including my cellnr and she immediately texts me as well. We start some hardcore flirting through these text messages and all of a sudden she asks me to get on fb-chat. There she says: I don't want to make things akward, but I do have a boyfriend, that's ok I tell her, I just talk to her to have fun. She's happy to hear that and tells me not to feel guilty bc she was flirting along. At some point I tell her that I felt fairly attracted to her and she told me she feels the same thing.

After a while I tell her were I live and she asks me if she should drop by the next day. I tell her that's ok and that we should finish a movie I was watching, she agrees. So today she get's here and we start watching the movie. You really could cut the tension with a butterknife and all of a sudden we start making out. She tells me she shouldn't do this and that she's really not that type of girl. I reassure her that it's fine and that no-one is going to find out about what we are doing. She seems comforted by this comment.

We move to the bed and she tells me that we are definitely not going to have sex, I tell her she's right and that we're just going to have fun. We start making out intensely and she's getting turned on and starts grabbing my crotch. All of a sudden she says she has to think about if she really wants to do this and she leaves to the bathroom. About 5 minutes later she comes back and tells me she knows what she wants and she pulls her shirt of and starts making out with me again. We end up having great sex.

A while after we stopped, she get's kinda sad. I ask her if she's thinking about her boyfriend and she confirms. Frankly, I didn't really know what to say at this point so I just reassured her again that no-one is going to find out about this. She tells me it's probably better that we shouldnt do this again in the future if we wouldnt want this to come out. A few minutes later she changes her mind and tells me that we will probably be doing this again soon. I confirm.

I have a question however, I actually kind of like this girl and she is really hot, allthough the fact that she cheated on her boyfriend with a guy she just knows one day tells me to stop developing feelings for this girl in any way possible. If she ends up breaking up with her boyfriend, maybe an open relationship would be a fitting solution? Do you guys have any advice?

Disclaimer: I know it is a total act of douchebaggery for making a girl cheat on her boyfriend, so please don't mention it. I truly am aware of what I did. I will not make any excuses for my actions and am ready to face the consequences when something happens to come out.

Well, I believe most of the guys here will tell you if she cheated on her boyfriend with you, she'll do the same thing to you. I don't necessarily agree with that because I don't like to judge people without fully knowing all the circumstances and who knows how her relationship is with her BF was and if she's been wanting to break with him. If you have a feeling she might be a slut, then in a relationship with her you'll always wonder and have unnecessary jealousy issues. Open relationship is never a bad thing to start with if you're not sure. I guess you have to know her a little bit better, see her side of the story and then judge for yourself if she's trustworthy enough for a LTR material. So, yeah, it's good to be cautious now and put a break on developing feelings for now.

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douchebaggery .... mmm im not going to use that word.

actually i was going to say '' hopeless'' if you really want a relationship with her.
if she cheats on him she will cheat on you as well , there fits no circle in the traingle shaped hole , only a circle does.

You are just posting this because you want permission from some forum guys that it's ok to fuck some other ones GF. You want us to tell you how you can get into a relationship with her, you are constantly telling us how hot she is which isn't important at all , you just want us to give you certain affirmations the question was :

Banged a girl, she cheated, I like her, what now?

is this seriously a question ? do i need to babysit you ? or are you here showing off how you fucked this hot chick ? You just knew what you were doing all along ... you don't get attracted by texting her 2 hours YOU were attracted the first few seconds you saw her , because all you are saying '' she's hot ''
you knew what your doing from the start which makes you even a bigger you just sound like some guy with poor inner game who selects woman on appearance only... well guess what, most woman are hot.
attraction happens wihtin seconds .... you are calculative thus a calculative douchebag.
LOL ... every girl says that .. even when they don't have boyfriends , total bullshit massive red flag. If she really was decent she would have just accepted the fact she's a disloyal slut ... because now she is a undecent disloyal slut.
again you manipulated the her by again telling her it's ok ... lol .... actually it's not ok... you messed up her whole relationships, but that's what you wanted to do from the start. Using your jedi powers to sweep this girl away from her boyfriend.
plausible deniability ... however you are again manipulating her.
dude you messed up her life ... now she feels all these bad emotions because YOU want sex so bad. jeeeeeezzzz.
lol you don't know what to say unless it gets you sex ..... and you are making bad promises... someone is going to find out ... do you think her BF won't notice her different behaviour?

NOW THIS LOL
LOL you are fucking untrusworthy.. you were the baddest thing she could fuck... everyone knows you banged that chich in the executive committee and now everyone will soon know yoú have banged this chick ... you are a lousy ladiesmen.
are oyu fucking serious ... and when you are away or she is with her BF she will change her mind again... especially when she is fucking her BF since he got this nice huge black dick.... yes you guys are pounding the same pussy - if i were you id do a penis washathon.
Maybe her BF will put a butterknife against you neck ... you don't know who you are fucking with - he could be a coke dealer or a police officer - maybe a gangbang. Im not saying you deserve to be stabbed but you defenilty deserve a assbeating.
you don't give a shit about her or her BF.....you are willing to fuck her again you don't even know what you've done since you don't feel any emotions - only logical thought. Consequences you will have to face ? it could be a lead bar speeding to your face , but well ... better you instead of me ... good luck.

did i already mensioned douchebag ? .. mm thats not creative ... you are just a pathetic excuse for a human being.

the moderator should lock this thread or delete it so the person who wrote it can go to a monastery .. robed .. ready to think it over .

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mmm in matter of seconds i changed my mind ......

you are not a regualr douchebag


you really are a manipulative douchebag.....

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Fuck what these people are saying. Who gives a shit if she cheated?? Most girls will cheat n u r in noway a douchbag for fucking her. It sounds to me like the guy who broke it all down has been cheated on before n is more hostile towards cheating than is necessary. She's not your gf, she didn't cheat on you, and you did nothing wrong. You met a hot girl n fucked her. That's it. Who gives a shit if she has a bf. Im into girls, not into respecting dudes I don't know who can't keep their girl from fucking other guys! Ive fucked girls wit bfs n its no big deal at all. I wouldn't get in a committed relationship with her, but as long as she's dtf, I recommend u being the same! If you had great sex, n she wants to keep fucking, FUCK HER. The real "douchebaggery" is someone telling you NOT to fuck her because she has a loser bf. If you can get over the fact she's fucking him, I really see no issue. I try to keep a couple girls who I can hook up with, n I couldn't care less if they fuck other guys. Just wrap it up, n have as much fun as possibly buddy. Don't listen to the silly shit the kids above this post were saying. End of the day, you fucked an hb8, n that's a win. Enjoy.

o man this thread is getting amusing ... yeah listen to kinorc .. don't forget to try your neightbour .. shes a hot milf... her kids? .... they aren't important lets just ruin their lives by fucking their mom.

another egocentric guy who thinks he can fuck anything without any consequences.
your not only egocentric but short sighted....
he manipulated this girl into fucking him .... i never said he did anything wrong i just said he's a douchebag, he already said it himself.
you don't know her BF ... who is saying hes a loser , it could be your best friend or your brother ?
true .... i hope you get into a relationship with her so she can cheat on you....

kinorc you are coming off like a guy who fucks at every chance he gets ... please stop this so called tough guy badboy personlity because you are really making fun of yourself. if you really had abundance you wouldn't fuck every girl at the chance you get , guys who live in abundace don''t need to fuck every girl.

LOL'' you even say FUCK what these people are saying ''.... since you are also posting in this thread .... fuck you what your saying, your irrelevant.... And if you type any messages leave some open spaces, you already are conveying you are typing messages with many emotions like aggression.

'' in the end you fucked a hb8 thats a win '' LOL .... well fuck as many girls as possible lets see if that will get your life anywhere. You might as well consider a career in porn industry - you seem to fit the bill.

really facepalming myself... jezus guys .....im not angry or anything .. im just really dissapointed in you guys.

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Well, I actually did post it here to find some sort of approval, because I had some sense of having done something wrong.

And lodewijk, yes, I might be pathetic, but I feel kind of indefferent to all of your arguments as they are not anwsering my question, therefore you should be banned rather than I should be, amirite?

You should know I really am not the shallow kind of guy, more like the opposite. However when I meet a hot chick, I think it's worth mentioning, even if it's a 100 times, especially on this forum.

You seem to have a problem with objectifying women, you won't ever hear me say it's a good thing, but I think a big group on this forum does objectify as well. As I recall from The Game, Style mentioned that taken girls were much easier to bang than singles. So why is it that you make such a biggie out of this?

I think kinorc is right, you're probably traumatized by a similar experience, which has made you bitter as you are now, so who needs to work on his inner game now? I was really not manipulating her, everything she said was in a sexual teasing way, allthough she had some pretty ASD and showed some LMR. I even told her that if she didnt want me to anything to just say it, I even asked it multiple times, though she kept wanting to continue.

I just got out of an intense relationship and am trying to have fun as much as I can. I really have no regret of this action, nor did she.

Txacoli and kinorc: Thanks for your comments, I will proceed with caution and I will not go for the LTR.
Lodewijk, as though I do disagree with your arguments, I have to say thanks for the effort you're putting in making your point, it's not something that happens a lot on the internet nowadays. Mostly people just randomly bash someone when they see something they don't like, you however, can construct your point pretty well.

im just honest and i answered your question ...2 in 1, and yes im being indifferent .. i just made something up to annoy you... do you really think i spend time for you if i don't care ..... again .. you dissapoint me.

i never said you should be banned ..... i said this thread should be locked and has nothing to do with banned.... i still agree i should be banned instead of you since i never said it ? ...
i never said you were shallow ..... being hot is enough reason for you to fuck the girl. you don't have to say she's hot if you already told her shes HB8.....
why would i her there is no need .... ? .. if you really have read and understood my first post you would realize i was objectificating you.....
so style is giving you permission to fuck anything ? because he is the master pickup artist he's the only one whos right ? where are the scientific models which prove this ? You are making assumptions on one other person experience ....
why in earth do you believe someone who has financial interest in you ? styles only selled his book for generating money. im not saying he's wrong but he isn't right either.....
yeah i would believe him as well .. .. and im bitter ... yeah im bitter after reading all this shit im fairly dissapointed in you guys...
because you made her attracted to you ......
yeah because you have no relationship .... you got out a intense relationship which really explains your needyness for this ''occupied'' girl. try to have as much fun .. on other ones expense ...
you just came here to get permission to fuck her again .. you already knew you want to hook up with her again so why come here and ask what to do ? ....

i got nothing more to say .. i hope it works out well .. just be carefull with this girl because she is prone to cheating.

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I think both are right because there's two sides to this story.

First of all: she made a choice. She made a number of choices that led to her cheating on her boyfriend. You didn't make this choice for her, and you really dind't have to pressure her that hard to get it to do it. In all likelihood, she would have cheated on him with someone else if not you. You don't know this guy, and obviously he's lost the attraction of his woman. You shouldn't feel bad at all about her, or him. They are far from your largest problem.

Your largest problem is you.

Let take a look at the other side of the coin. You are a man. Did you act like a man? No. You acted like a boy. You took what doesn't belong to you because you wanted it. You acted without considering the consequences, and you're still not interested in considering the consequences. Your preselection process is awful. You weren't looking for a decent woman, or an interesting woman, or anything like that. You were looking for something to dip your dick in. Again, you did so with such tunnelvision, that you neglected to look at the consequences of your actions. Perhaps you should look at why you felt the need to do this in the first place, instead of looking for a meaningful relationship. Are you a boy or are you a man? A man would have instantly realized that she is bad news, and there are plenty of other women, and wouldn't have bothered with her. Have some self respect.

In short, you shouldn't pursue a relationship with her because you still need to develop into a man. Until you do, you don't have any idea what you actually want. Once you do, I think you'll be suprised to realize that you're not interested in this girl at all. In the mean time, I recommend that you stay away from her as a matter of self-dicipline, and instead seek the companionship of women who actually fulfill you in some profound way.

I've been in the EXACT same situation. She ended up breaking up with her dude but after she broke up with him she immediately got with another dude she was texting. This was before I started my game stuff so I'm sure I could've gotten her but honestly I'm glad I didn't. So my advice would be to ask yourself these questions and be honest with yourself: Would you be able to trust her if you did make her your gf? and Do you want more than a fuck buddy?.. Whatever you do don't ignore that voice in the back of your head that is saying "this chick is sketchy". I would say make her a fuck buddy cause she clearly is not in the state of mind for something serious or she would've stood up for herself and gotten out of her older relationship before cheating. Good Luck

Why should he find a woman to fulfill him in a profound way? He's just ended a LTR and wants to have fun. I'm not gonna moralize over the fact that this girl has a BF, I can't judge him nor her because I've done some things myself. Some of those have been mistakes to learn from and one of those turned into a wonderful LTR. I don't agree about the boy/man thing. I think a man can have casual relationships if he wants to, but a man will also manage the expectations of the girl well and not lead her on.

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I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

i dont think you can convince a girl to cheat, shes either going to cheat or shes going to be faithful. i suspect she has told every guy shes ridden behind her boyfriends back that shes not that kind of girl and shes not sure she should be doing this. she made a concious decision to go to your place after you had been obviously flirting with her, she liked the attention, most women do!

she was gonna cheat on him regardless, so why not with you? never promise a girl no one will find out cos thats not true. the truth always gets out. and the important thing to remember, if you dont want to get caught with someone elses girlfriend, dont let it happen more than once.

as for having feelings for her, thats just phantom feelings, she used you for a quick bit of satisfaction, and she binned you after, much like im sure you have done to girls, in my experiance, the ones that think there falling for you are the ones you use only for sex.

Well ill address all of this now...oo n I use my phone to post on here, so I don't structure my posts the same way I would if I was typing on a computer.

1st. Ill let it be known there is absolutely no shame in my game. There are only two guys on this planet who's girls I wouldn't fuck. If there is a milf down the street n she wants to fuck, im going to fuck her. Correct, I do not care about her kids, her husband, her dog, or her white picket fence. If a girl is good looking, and down, I will fuck her. Im not attempting to be in a relationship at all. Im attempting to have as much fun as possible n guess what...girls that cheat normally don't tell on themselves. Their could be real consequences for fucking her, but it hasn't happened to me yet. I keep my mouth shut n it works out. If anything, she may feel a little guilty, but it doesn't bother me. There is no "guy code" or any of that. If the girl is gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat. Why wouldn't you want it to be with you??

Next, imnot trying to sound tough about it or act hard, im simply just saying I really don't give a shit about a random girls bf. Ill let him run his life n ill run mine.

Onward and upward. I don't know how hallpass feels exactly, but for me, there is no definition of a man. I can see right through you morals. Next, he didn't take something that wasn't his. The girl belongs to no one. She is her own self and no one else's property. She is not a toy that he took from some guy. She is a human being who freely fucked him. I don't think he was that manipulative, but you act like you've never heard of bf destroying patterns and the like. Fuckin girls with boyfriends is part of the game. If you wanna take yourself out of that aspect of the game for moral reasons, that's fine. I definitely wont.

You can say that is childish, but I find it much more juvenile toview a girl with a bf as her bf's property. I also have given up on any attempt to conform to anyone else's belief structure. I enjoy mine far more .

Finally, it sucks that you got cheated on bro...but you gotta get over it. You are seeming very wounded duck to me n I think if you sat around n realized that your animosity comes from ur pain, n not from hallpass, you would be happier n not have to say some shit about every sentence he types. Also, im not gonna pile on n talk shit on u for being cheated on, I once dated a girl who got rupheed n raped when we were together...so I have been through some shit too bro. When u say she is a disloyal slug, I feel like your just yelling at your ex n projecting onto hp's girl. Its ok tho buddy, one day you will get over your pain and realize its ok to fuck girls with bfs. If not, that's cool too stick to your morals. I will stick to my lack of such morals. Im not even gonna insult you n bring up how funny it was that you brought up penis size of this girls bf lmao. Hope u feel better man.

Hallpass, good work buddy. Enjoy fucking this girl. Later.

Lodewijkp I think you're being quite harsh on Hallpass.

Firstly, if their relationship was as stable and as rosey as a relationship should be, she wouldn't of cheated on her boyfriend in the first place. The chances are Hallpass doesn't even know this guy, it's not like it's his brother's girlfriend or his best mates girlfriend.. he just randomly met her.

I wouldn't say he manipulated her at all, she knew exactly what she wanted to do, she just tried to cover it up by saying that she shouldn't be doing it, and doesn't usually do it, so she didn't look, and feel, like a slag.

The fact he felt the need to cover himself at the end of his post by saying that little disclaimer shows that he actually cares about the negative comments people give him, therefore with all due respect I don't see the need to call him this and that.. we'll all on here together, as a family if you will, to give advice and try and help each other out.

Personally, if it was me, i'd of done exactly the same thing.

However.. would I get in a LTR with this girl? - Definitely not. An open relationship? If I knew that I wouldn't get attached and it wouldn't get to me when she's been playing around with others - possibly.

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cheating is not a situational mistake

it is

a character flaw

a cheater IS a cheater

it's an inexcusable behavior.

it shows lack of honesty, integrity, empathy, maturity, or decency.

i was in the process of picking up this find blond checkout girl at the local grocery store.

when she let it slip that she was single (she said this sadly) because she had been unfaithful (didn't use these exact words) with her ex.

i was like "ai'ght, keep it real, yo" and walked off.

she realized she blew it because she was very interested in me. she kind of initiated.

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