I've been reading alot on here, and sometimes I feel the same way. How do I get this girl? That's the question. How do I win? What do I need to do to get her? She's so hot, I need help. Well let me put this in a way that once believed and placed deep inside ur head will yield you incredible results. You do not win when you get her, she wins if she gets you. This may sound like the antithesis of your normal mindset and that is fine. Once that belief is fostered and developed it will be a complete game changer.

Imagine all of the guys on the planet. Now first eliminate the grotesque and extremely over weight. Delete the guys too scared to talk to girls. Next remove the homosexual male population. Get rid of the guys who have no social life and finally slice off the guys who are social, but have no idea about game.

You are left with a very small percentage of the male population. Now just remove the very overweight and grotesque girls and the lesbians (why not fuck a girl cause she's shy, shy guys take themselves out of the gene pool while shy girls just need to be opened up). You are left with a huge amount of average and attractive girls. Once you realize they are not the rarity, we are it will blow your mind. You will see that a guy with the confidence to approach a set, the charm to win them over, the game to build attraction, and the balls to do something about it is the true rarity. As such, ACT LIKE IT! How many guys do you know, who aren't into pick up, or aren't naturals (spend time with them, you will learn alot) that know how to really get girls? How many guys do you know who have memorized all these little routines and games and can guarantee that they wont let a conversation go stale? How many guys do you know with the confidence to walk up to an hb10 n tell her, "eh your cute, but looks are so common what about u OTHER than your looks makes you beautiful?"? How many guys do u know with the balls to walk over to an hb9-10? Make a list of these people now. Make a list of people you know who don't fit that description. Which is longer?

One thing I have noticed is the staggering amount of men who automatically take themselves out of contention for the most gorgeous girls on this planet simply because they believe they can't get them, or that they r so rare they should he worshipped. The true rarity is not the girl, but the guy who gets her. The guy who gets her can have anyone he wants. The girl who gets him is lucky! If he has the confidence n game to grab the hottest girl at the club, he could've had any other 'lower' girl he wanted. Do you understand yet or should I reiterate?

We are the rarity, they are the lucky ones!

Granted, getting alot of the best looking girls in the world is our goal, but I personally LOVE the game. I love the little nuisances and how every play is different. Every set a new opportunity to play the greatest game possible. When im gaming a hb 8.5+ the last thing I am thinking is omg this girl is hot. Granted, its hitting my mind, but I focus far more on the game. I want to play, and so does she. Why do you think all of the little routines work? They are all fun games and we use them while using kino to build more attraction. How many guys do you know who can at will pull out all these little exciting tricks and such? Guess what...she knows less. Chances are this is her first time actually "playing" with a guy she meets. He's not fumbling over his words, he's not fawning over her telling her how beautifl she is. In fact, he let her know pretty immediately if she wanted him she needs more than looks. This is why...

WE are the rarity, they are the LUCKY ones![/u]

Why was luck involved?

You are a mutual benefactor, you both get something great out of it. Most guys do have some game anyway, i dont understand where this whole 'only pick up artists or naturals get laid' thing comes from. Just because guys don't do cold approach doesnt mean they dont get laid either.

When a guy meets a girl, they both benefit and as long as they're on a 50/50 in the value department it'll go along smoothly.

Apart from i dont see how you could put this into your mindset other than fooling yourself, thinking your better than somebody is about as unattractive as it can get. Also in a relationship (including friendship) do you WANT people thinking/being they're lower value than you?

I'd rather be with people that i see on a eye to eye basis and mutual respect but thats just me

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By realizing that you are of high value, you are not lowering anyone else's. Instead you are merely recognizing your own place inthe food chain. Is a fisherman equal to his prey, or a hunter to his? Then how is this different? Humans were in noway created equal. To imagine u r equal with everyone else is the true delusion. To realize oneness is your true potential. I also wrote this post for people to gain a little bit on confidence from. To show those who do not realize just how rare they are. If you would like to start off n stay 50/50 with a girl that's fine. Ill keep the power in my game tho thank you . Do you not remember..."it is an honor to get picked up by a pua"....anyways go n happy hunting

Thats true delusion

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My only response would be that we create our own reality tunnels (read every robert anton wilson book possible to understand partially what im talking about). Realizing that our entire view of reality is based upon our individual biases and beliefs, I say create the reality tunnel in which you have the most fun. All reality tunnels distort, and the only way people relate to everything else is based on such tunnels. As such, I personally find the above stated beliefs to align with a reality tunnel that for the time being, I enjoy the most. As stated, all of our beliefs distort the information being transmitted to our consciousness. We willl exclude parts and over-emphasize others based on our reality tunnels. Is thisnot the reason that people post here? They realize their views on situations to be limited, and because of that would like the take of people viewing from different reality tunnels.

Now to my initial position. I personally have constructed my ego/reality tunnel to my specifications. I advise you to do the same. Read Leary's "how to change behavior" article for the broad strokes. The work is much more difficult for most than the article n any books on the subject would have you believe. It can also be incredibly easy...its really about how easy you can let go of any idea of what you are...anyways that is another topic. It is sufficient to say, that all of us are distorting the information being presented to our brains, and the distorted tiny fragment of that is what reaches our consciousness. As such, my post is to merely inspire those with poor reality tunnels to create new ones which can better suit their ends. If you make my above statements a true belief...it has no other choice than to play itself out. By the same token, if you believe you will never get a girl you desire, younever will.

What I am advocating is magick. True brain change willed. Any who want to truly conform to their reality tunnel, and not realize all belief is an illusion, that's fine. For me, I will instead realize the limitations of my beliefs and yet, foster beliefs which serve my wills end best. I hope this can clarify some of the misconceptions you seem to have about what im saying.

In a nutshell, all beliefs are limiting, and if you must believe something, believe that which serves yourself in the best way...enjoy humans

The question should be WHY is it an honour to be picked up by a pick up artist. Girls dont go back home thinking "i love the way he opened me and negged me, he qualified really well.". A pick up is messy business and most poo-ah's who do approach probably aren't better than the average guy (if they opened).

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I have personally changed my reality. I was once very shy and meek, had bladder shyness, always put myself down in front of women--I'm on the heavy side of life--never spoke up in class, never did much of anything. Then I discovered NLP and through the process of self-hypnosis and babysteps, I've created the personality that I wanted. I walk outside and see a beautiful woman, I start talking to her if I'm interested. I'm running the track and a beautiful woman passes by and I'm talking to her.

I walked into 9 businesses, 6 of which I did not have the degree they said they wanted for the job. They were sales and presentations, and I talked my way into an appointment with the secretaries 7 females 2 males (2 of the secretaries I got numbers from and went out with). I got 5 job offerings. So while the rest of America is struggling to find a job, by sheer force of character (and conversational hypnosis skills, I got job offers I wasn't qualified for). I got to do three sales presentations for car salesman on how to better their sales using body language and NLP language and anchors.

One can easily change their own reality, but it requires babysteps, small conversation, and the such.

Exactly!!! Its about losing your ego, and formulating a new one which best serves your current goals. Once that mindset is no longer helping you, or you have achieved you ends, destroy that one, n build anew. It is a constant mental evolution where you realize all mindsets are bullshit, so you craft the ones best suited for you at the time. Once it no longer suits you, and more often than not becomes a hinderence to your new goals, destroy that one and build anew. Its about constant mental evolution, while simultaneously realizing the limitations of all mind sets. Once you can at will achieve ego loss, you can literally create a new "self" anytime you need to. You just destroy your entire belief structure n replace it with one best suited to your goals. I personally allow my transformations to play themselves out until they are of no further use, then I discard them and start anew. The real work, is the constant transformation of "self" to serve your highest aspirations. Once you have experienced "no self" you will realize any "self" is a distortion, n if you must distort, distort in a way that allows you to best achieve your goals. When they lo longer do, let go, and create what will serve you better. I am in no way advocating static mindsets. Instead I am advocating the dynamic nature of reality, and advising that all live up to their true potential. Remember "in the dimension of the mind, all is limitless". It truely is what you make of it. So go ky fiends n become the selves you want to be. Once that isn't helping, destroy that self and become the self you want to be and so on and so forth.

You sound pretty lost in your own bullshit.

Instead of offering something concrete you go on a rant talking about all kinds of different houses, which you'll have to break down in order to build a new one coz the old one 'didn't do it anymore'.

Why not build a house that you like and can live in for the rest of your life. Instead of going 'nah, doesn't work anymore BREAK IT DOWWWNNNN'

Do you actually know what you're passionate about? mr. demo man

Lol...im not lost in the slightest my friend. Any egoic mindset IS bullshit. If you believe yourself to be a self...you are lost. That's fine, most people only identify with their sense of self. I have experienced "no-self", mu, "no-thing"ness. If anyone else has seen their true infinity, you will realize that all ideas of self are illusory. Don't worry tho, their are no words to describe what im talking about n u either know or don't. If it resonates, great. If not, you are the norm. As such, create n be what you will, n if you stop enjoying it, destroy n create anew. If you don't get it yet, I really am not concerned. If you read my posts in this thread n u understand, then go my children n create whatever you will desires.

Elaborate masks for all occasions, anything you would will yourself to be, you shall. Then take off all the masks, and see what's inside!

I thought all that 'no self' spirituality advocated that everyone is equal beings.

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what the fuck are you talking about ... ?

all i could do is reading this chaotic shit ..it seriously doesn't make any sense at all ... you sound like someone who made a thread after smoking crack.

why did you post all this stuff? if you can answer ....

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The reason I made this thread was to put the original idea I stated into more peoples brains. The reason I have elaborated onto this deeper subject is the fact that people were saying its a distortion. Im saying of course it is! Any idea of self is a distortion. Also, there is no "noself" spirituality. Basically the turning the conversation to that direction, was to point out that you can have experiences where you lose your ego and become one with everything. After that experience, you can literally dictate what ideas you want, put them into your subconscious, and live them out. If you don't like living by the new ideas any longer, you can repeat the process again. Once you realize the futility of the ideas which dominate your own reality, you can change them. As for all humans being created, nothing could be further from the truth. A retard can in no way play basketball better than me. Everything is of course an expression of the source, but in no way equal. In the same way you eyes and ears are not equal. They are their own unique expression. That is the beautiful part. Being an individual while simultaneously being nothing. Hopefully this clarifies some shit for u...if not whatever...im pretty much done on this thread.

so you start a thread and stop taking responsibility for the information you have granted ?

and btw ... i respect the fact you want to share knowledge with me , but it still doesn't make any sense ....

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Loved the way u put it ! U have apoint there ! Thx for sharing