| There was this girl that i had hung out with awhile back, she was dating someone, we were having a good time, but, I was a typical Beta Male at the time, and didn't want to ruin anything for her. Well, a year later, she broke up with her boyfriend, and I started to get into contact with her. She started dating someone else in the month of our reconnection and said she wanted to hang with me and her boyfriend wanted to come.
I wrote to her, Sounds great, I always like meeting new people. Your boyfriend does know I have no interest in dating you right. Because I don't want to sit through anything with evil stares, and every word I say being disseminated for code. I don't want to cause you any grief, and I don't want to put your bf in any uncomfortable circumstance, or bring up any insecurities he might have with your relationship and ruin a good thing for you.
She wrote back, No, no, it's fine, he's cool, he's not like that at all. But what do you mean that you don't have any interest in dating me. What's wrong with me?
I wrote back, Nothing's wrong with you, you're a good person from what I remember, and you're highly attractive and you were always fun in class. But, I think of you like one of my step-sisters, a great person, but more a very good friend, instead of a relationship. I'm not saying that we wouldn't have wonderful sex, but, it would hurt our relationship as friends, and I just don't feel that way about you, cause you're really just more like a step-sister.
She wrote back, My BF said he couldn't make it, but he knows it's fine. Do you really think I'm just like a step-sister?
We keep talking, two weeks later, she's broken up with her boyfriend and she's riding me hard. And she wasn't expecting a relationship, just great sex, and we've had great times since.
I would've never had that confidence had I not discovered this life.
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