Why don't you do what every guy in the World who has a girlfriend did at one time or another and actually ASK HER OUT? Why are you dabbling around with pointless kino? (which in your case seems to be code for a free "cop a feel")

Put it OUT THERE so she goes, "You mean as boyfriend/girlfriends?"

Many ways to reply to this but at least you'd have something to work with. Right now, you're just playing the wussy guessing game while waiting in line to pet her up like she's the residential petting zoo goat.

Well to be honest Kasabi, im unsure whether I actually want a girlfriend.
I do and I dont lol. I like her a great deal, but at the same time feel that because im in every class with her and see her every day (including weekends) the "love" will die down really quickly.

My ex turned me off relationships a fair bit. Hoping this is temporary, we broke up a few months ago though so getting worried haha. She sukd! what if this is the same?

she's just intimidated ... you have put her into the friendship zone by not really escalating the right way. it could be she wants you to kiss her all along but you just didn't so she feels regret - or buyers remorse without even taking action.

now you are just insecure by thinking she's putting you in the friendship zone , actually you did well and could K-close her but you didn't.

sounds like a guy who is playing in a role too much .. too much PUA for example '' i game but i don't close '' because when you close the game is over. you don't even want a girlfriend because you are too much in this gaming. also your ex turned you off relationships .. i mean WTF you let other people decide what to feel ?

sounds like you are insecure, you even mentioned looks and all that shit .....
your gaming skills seems ok tho , il bet you could have K-closed this girl...

LOL KASABI ... Pointless kino .. lol !.. im going to that for fun , just touching girls until they go nuts fingering her all over her body, seems like a fun night out !

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Not sure how old you are but most guys should grow out of "Yeah I could have won but I didn't feel like playing," by age 10 to 12 . . .

No man, its not that at all. I genuinely feel pressured if I start thinking about even that sort of commitment.

And yeah I spose I am insecure. Well not currently, but while I had a girlfriend I was insecure in the sense that shed try make me jealous and I would feel very jealous.

Anyway guys, ive continued gaming (haha please dont shoot me down any more about gaming too much) and Ive decided to kiss her. We were talking close today, and I had one arm around her waist and one through her hair and our lips were about 1cm apart looking at each others lips and all.

Should have gone for it but the situation wasnt really appropriate (standing in a cue with other friends), and I still have issues about kissing in public for some reason.
Were going out next weekend.