Small Field Report:

Ok, so last night I went too a party and the only person I knew there was my friend who I went with...No problem, I just played it cool for the first hour and waited till everyone, including myself was drunk enough to work my game...last night was the first time Ive ever tried routines/ openers/ negs in the field...and anyways, I opened up to the host of the parties' younger sister (HB8.5), and after a 2 hours of mediocre game (ESP test, which sorta worked/ negged her on fake hair color n nose ring) I k-closed her, and fooled around with her in an isolated room for over an hour...I tried to f-close her, but she was hesitant b/c of her on n off relationship with this other guy...anyways, I #-closed her and I told her Id call her today, however she kept saying that she didnt think id call her today, and that I was only trying to go for the 1 nighter...ya it was sorta true, but the fact that i didnt f-close her, and that she thinks I wont call her, makes me want to pursue her...

Situation:

Ok so today instead of calling her, I text messaged her at around 415pm to feel out if she was interested...the text went "hey this is______ I had a good time at the party last night...wondering how ur doing today? n what are ur plans for tonight?" very AFC I know, but it was just to feel out the situation...no response for a few hours, so I call her at 630 and it says her phones off or outta service, same thing an hour later...so my question is how am I supposed to play the phone game with her? she'll prolly get my txt late, and then wat? do I call her again tommorow? wait till she responds? cuz if i put the ball in her court it might not happen...also how should i talk to her on the phone? regame her or try n setup a meet? and how should i play it for either situation? Any help would be great, thanks

let it go. if she gets back to you, great, but dont pursue. you did what you said you would, let her come to you.

Very true, I would have stayed away from the text message personally, the sound of someones voice is much more personal. Text messaging is so AFC, but it sounds like you a decent enough opening. Just let the ball be in her court. Girls don't want guys that are desperate, you should be leading her around like a cat and a string, not the other way around.

Hope all goes well

-Your Friendly Neighbourhood Fresh

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Can't Stop....Won't Stop

Ya so I didnt do anything else last night and decided to let her make the next move, and this morning I get a text back at 8am from her saying her phone was dead and that she'll text me when its charged...so she played back, even though i was being very AFC...and F-fresh, your right about the cat-string theory with this girl...thats basically how I gamed her the other night so Ima keep doing it for the time being

k so i caved in just now (5:00pm) and called her after waiting all day for something...and to be honest, the phone convo with her was very AFC on my part...after my shitty ass opener, I had no idea wat to say, the good thing on her part was that she seemed like she wanted to carry on the convo for abit...anyways it was just going awful so I ended up asking her if she wanted to do something tommorow...and I actually made some funny comments on wat we could do, however the ended with the ball in her court...she said she would text me or call me tommorow...and after the bad phone convo, Im not expecting anything...but heading into the convo, I said to myself "ive got nothing to lose, but everything to gain" so if nothing happens im not gonna be disappointed