hey people..
im getting confused about something

you see i'm working hard on selfimprovement
and so i work on my bodylanguage
so im standing taller then before and im taking my space and i walk more slowly and that stuff

i was standing in a tram while noticing my sister is over there. so i walked up to her to say hi and stuff and she suddenly begins over that im not my self anymore and stuff
but this is confusing me
i mean self improvement is improver that 'yourself' right?

i didn't felt this confident in a while! so i want to keep on improving my self
so my gut says it allright to continue but is it?

i mean what if i meet new girls now they only know this me but to me this is the only me because i see this as an improved 'yourself'

can you guys maybe clear some things up?

the whole point of PUA is to give you confidence and to help you love yourself. Once you have respect for yourself, other people will respect you.

You can't change who you are completely, and acting different by reading all the PUA stuff can only get you so far, until pople get to know you and may see this is all staged and an act.

Do not confuse being confident with being an asshole. If you act like a jerk you will only piss people off for no good.

Respect yourself and your identity, but dont be rude