So today was my day off so I was going to take my two wings out to the mall and do some hardcore sarging today. So I get up and text one wing, and he doesn't reply. The other wing says he can't go until like 4. So I sit at home and go over material for a few hours and then go pick him up at 4, but then I get a call for a job interview at 7, so that means we don't have time to go the mall anymore. So we hang around a smaller strip mall close to where I'm going to have the interview, and me and my wing walk around unable to locate even a slightly hot chick. So we go in a store, and I open this guy and the 40 year old fat lady behind the counter, and then leave. Then we go in a store and my friend opens the cashier (the first hot girl we've seen all day). After that, he had to leave and I was stuck there waiting for my interview. I walked around helplessly for an hour, trying to find a set to open. I finally see a couple, but I for some reason, could not make myself go and approach them. I tried everything but without a wingman coaxing me along, I just can't make myself do it. I was so pissed at myself. I just couldn't pick my balls up off the ground and even open my mouth to a HB. So I feel like a failure now. If anybody has any tips on how not to chicken out next time I would love to hear them.

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Ill give u some tips...one go to a better place to sarge. Daygaming is fine, but I prefer going to clubs...whatever works for u tho. Here is another. Just go open the set. If u need a rule to make u do it use the 3 second rule. If u see her u have 3 seconds to start u approach. Its really just about going and opening so many sets that u don't think about it anymore. You need to program your mind that it is normal to approach. When you first start approaching and opening seems like such a challenge, but when you are comfortable in ur own skin it becomes easy. Also...everyone gets that little nervous rush when they see a girl they want. Its natural. You have to just say fuck it and go. I personally enjoy that. You should go do 100 approaches. Also, I know what you mean about wings, I have a couple friends who come out with my to run game and when your boy is like go get her...you don't back out cause he will give u shit. Also...u gotta stop caring what these girls think. Like what's the worst thing that can happen during your approach "she screams omg u troll get away from me u r the most disgusting thing in the world". Well even if she did, who gives a fuck. Once you realize the worst possible thing that can happen probably never will, n the worst think that normally happens is its just a dry set, n u politely eject n go about ur day. Fuck that fear...its the only way you can fuck that girl. Hope this helps pz.

i hade same experiences