I've been dating/seeing HB9 for 3 months, on and off. However, we havent been exclusive, and i've been dating others, while she has also been dating others. Before, she has rejected the idea of having a relationship with me, but that was months ago. How do I make our relationship exclusive, without going total AFC on her... are there any good routines to use/work off of?

The way I think about it, there are two scenarios:

1: I ask, she says yes, everyone is happy.

2: I ask, she is hesitant, or says no... which becomes DLV for me.

THanks.

First off, you are right those are pretty much your two options. I wouldn't see #2 as a DLV to you though, that's all in your own mind, and how you look at it.

Either she will or she won't. There is no magic to pull here really. Some girls are either wanting a long term relationship or they aren't. I'd like to think ultimately 90% of them are, but they may not be at the time we meet them OR when it's convenient for us as guys.

You've known the girl for at least 3 months you said, so basically it's time to get her 1 on 1 and see what you can do. The other play here is since your realtionship is very strong on the sexual front is to build comfort and connection with her so that she sees you as a potential for a long term relationship. That could take a little while of work depending on where you are now. I don't know if you want to wait that long, as it sounds like you'd rather be in a committed relationship with her than what you have now.