What's up? Fellow RAFCs, PUAs, mPUAs, the name's H!j!nx.

I recently came out of a LTR of 3 years IN COLLEGE. That'll mean something to some of you. . .I'm now seeing another girl (who I'll dub Kitty) and wanted to share with you all how I made this happen.

I do a lot of stand-up comedy, and I saw Kitty at one of the open mics on campus. She is about a 7 (though I later found out she is a sexual TIGER, and on top of that, asked ME about THREESOMES. . .that's a 10 in my book.). We had met before, so I waved her over, and we chatted for the better part of the open mic. Turns out we lived in the same part of campus, so we talked on the bus ride back, and for a bit after.

I've read The Game, and I think it only makes sense to draw from many different styles. BUT, I have to say that Juggler has influenced me most. I like the spontaneity and free structure that he pushes. I like talking to people, so much so that I my sticking point is sexually attracting girls. I have little problem with just attracting girls.

So anyway, I talked to Kitty about using vowels in speaking. When you stretch out the vowels in words that you use, you add more emotion to what your saying. Like, waaaaaaaaaay more emotion. Where most people would laugh at the out-of-the-ordinary-ness of a topic like that, she picked it up and engaged it. A girl that knew how to play. That's when I knew I had a keeper.

This was not a same-night kind of thing. I met up with her 4 or 5 times after that, chatted on facebook, keeping every funny, loose, and comedic. My usual hijinx. What I did notice though, after reading a book called Split-Second Persuasion by Kevin Dutton, is that eye contact is VERY effective. There is something about speaking to a woman while looking directly in her eyes that gives you an aura of mystery and intrigue. Now, if I can just work in sexual attraction, I'll be getting somewhere. . .

I had her over at my place a few times (Juggler's idea of statements over questions worked very well here), and she got familiar with staying in my room. We watched a few movies. One time, I invited her over to do some homework together. I, at desk, she on my bed. I said, "Alright, we can chill for 10 minutes, then I have to get back to this essay." Looking back on it, I guess this was a time constraint. We both were laying there. I started talking about my crimson comforter, how most people can't handle the sheer crimsonness of it all. She asked what happens to the ones that can handle it. As they same in Japanese, "Gamu Ova da."

Some things to take away are the importance of eye contact, and that every time with a girl doesn't HAVE to be just a one-night thing. Also, having a wide knowledge of books, current events, and things will help with conversation --> buying temperature.

Also, I'd appreciate any insights, comments, suggestions, advice on threesomes. For example, does the guy have more responsiblity in taking the lead in picking up #3 than the girl? Much appreciated,

-H!j!nx