Hey,

I need some interpretation of you guys!

Maybe you should know, that I will move to an other country in about 3 months.

I once meet a girl on a online-dating page and we wrote many times back and forth. Finally we met at a bar for a drink. It was quite ok, I guess.

We continued to write text messages and I made clear that I want to see here again. By the next time we wanted to meet again, she came up with a kind of excuse but she assured me to meet an other time.
We wrote again a few times back and forth, and the next time I asked her to meet, I never got an answer!

So of course I decided to try to forget her (she is super hot so it was hard), and go for other girls.

Then about 6 weeks later she suddenly wrote again a text message, and I of course answered. Now we write again every few days a few text messages back and forth, and she seems to enjoy it because her messages consists of many smilies and that kind of stuff.

So I wondering what she now actually wants from me. She knows that I will move to an other country soon.

As an example one of our conversations about 2 weeks ago:

She:
.... when are you going back to Germany?

Me:
Exactly in three months. So if you can life with that and promisse me not to fall crazy in love with me we should meet haha

She:
Hahahahahahaha you are funny. You mean the other way around. lol ...

Me:
Hahaha... you are sure about that?

She:
lol... time will tell... ha
So yeah, you are going back in 3 months
wow

Me:
Yep... So even you were right before, in latest three months you automatically get rid of me... lol

She:
lol, no...
Your are a nice guy, too bad you are leaving soon



And since that converstation we write again relatively often and she seems to enjoy it. But what does she want? I mean she was the one who wrote suddenly again.
I wouldn't have a problem just to have sex with her (actually I really would like to have!!), but I am not sure if I should make it more explicitly than before in the conversation above.
And I am not sure if I should ask here for a new meeting, since I basically did it already two times!!

Can anybody help me with an interpretation of my situation and the chick logic behind it?


best regards

nobody any suggestions?

The more you text, the lower your chances are of meeting her, period. Your main goal should be meeting up and after that just shut the fuck up, no more texting. Now when you two finally meet, you have to make it sexual, you can't just go about it like last time.

And the way you text comes off too shy. If I were a girl and you texted me like that, I wouldn't really see you as a confident guy; but anyways, do what I said above.

When you're AROUND her, you have to be horny. Imagine you being 13 with another girl at the age of 13 in a class all alone after school ended; you suddenly start to feel that sexual vibe setting in between you and her. Same shit with this chick.

yes you are right! I will not write her again and will wait until she writes and then make it perfectly clear what I want! If she wants too... fine! If not then no problem either!

You should take this to the next level!

Of course, the textmessaging is fun, after a while it gets boring. Before it gets boring, you should escalate. Make it more challenging instead of just fun.

Dare her to do stuff, meet up, etc.