Hey Fellas. This is my sticking point.
Recently im back into the scene after coming out of a long relationship. I always thought i would never need to know about all this stuff again... anyway Im back and learning all from scratch.
My problem is knowing how much to give her early on when we just get together. I think Im showing too much attention to her and acceptance of her early that she gets blown away. Like three times lately Ive gotten digits off girls I like only to find that they already have boyfriends supposedly and just want to be friends or recently met someone else and im out the door. SO, my initial work seems good to arouse their attraction but in the early stages either Im being too romantic, too nice, too complimentary or whatever. I need to know from the PUAs in here, say you find a girl you like how 'nice' and/or romantic are you in the very early stages of dating. Do you give nothing and wait for her to earn ALL your compliments OR are you very complimentary and romantic in the early stages OR do you drop one here and there and test the water. Frustrates the fvck out of me... there is something Im doing of a neediness nature that is scaring them away.