All right,

I've been in this really good relationship for more then 3 months now. I've overcome a lot already:

Difference in age (she is 44 (yet a hot 10 haha) and Í am 28 )
Difference in culture (Dutch vs. Latina)
Her divorce problems: I decided to help her with lawyers, accountants and real estate agents and other vultures

Amongst this there were a lot of other stressfull things that stressed the structure of our relationship to the limit. However we always turned out to be a great team and as this only strengthened our resolve and bond.

Lately however, troubles arrise with here doughter. She is 13 and very disobedient and agressive. And however she is accepting that her father has a relationship (he cheated and left his wife about 1,5 yrs ago) she does not seem to accept the relationship of her mother.

Just a minute ago we had a little discussion. Every two weeks my gf would sleep over at my place, thuis leaving her daughter home alone. I critized her about this on the first sleepover, but she would have none of it, because she thought she was punishing her and doing good.

Her sister however disagreed and now talked her into not doing this anymore. I asked her to stay over tomorrow, but then she told me about the thing her sister said and told me that we can better wait until next weekend.

I am fine with this however, I think it is time I start gaming the ultimate obstacle though... this either is my Operation Overlord or my Waterloo it think...

So my question is:

What is your experiences with the appropriate time frame about meeting the daughter?
What are your experiences on this?
Any tips on how to handle this?

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just wait 5 years and date her daughter lol
.... she will always hate you ....
terrible
extract youself o9ut of the situation ....

why do you get a fucking 44 year old milf lol , her daughter will control the relationship until she's 16 / 18, she will hate your ass for a long time.

why do you like her? ... why do you want a relationship with her ? the situation is not that important .... your motives are more important.
why the hell don't you get a normal relationship ? do you want to have children ?

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Well LodewijkP,

you were right in the long run. In the end the obstacle was:

- twitterbashing me
- telling my girlfriend every day what a fat ugyly fuck I am
- telling her family that she doesnt get any attention from her mother, cause I'm around ALL the time
- telling me she hates me, always hated me and will always hate me
- abused me for helping her do her homework, fixing computers and other things
- etc etc.

Still it was an experience I wouldn't want to miss. In the end it turned out things were a total mess there and I asked for attention for this from the family of my GF and the other part of the family of the daughter. I'm sure I made mistakes, and yes, in the end we had to break up because external stress started winning from the love and good connection.

But I'm positive about it because I learned shitload about what it is like to be with more than just your girlfriend and about how young people think. I was amazed to see how much I forgot about my own puberty and how disturbing and sensitive this time in life really is.

So for all you guys out there. Be careful whit the "ultimate obstacle" and make sure you are 100% intending to help and commit or else you will only damage things.

greetz

Bucc.

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson