I was LJBF a month ago but this girl I've been speaking with for 3 months but we still go to work together and txt I mean she shows interest but it's VERY minimal.

Obviously need to get out of the zone but what can I do? and what can I not do/say?

I kino her right(I think...)

I have my arm around her, laugh and flirt and talk dirty during our train journeys. She looks deep in my eyes and I do the same but we are never close enough to kiss or she quickly breaks eye contact and laughs. I want to get out by going for the kiss but I'm losing the balls to do it because the last time I tried was 3 weeks back and she rejected playfully but the more the weeks go by the more I feel like a friend who is having a good time with a girl.

I know I NEED to just go for it, but how? and what else can I do. I never put my hand on her leg or hold her hand because in the past she moves away but she lets me tickle her and play with her hair, I kissed her neck a bit because the "window" was open but the way her head was I couldn't kiss her lips. I try to let her know that this isn't all I'm after(we were like bf/gf from late Feb to early April) because we spoke for so long on the phone for weeks as a couple.

She always greets me with a hug and turns her face to the side whether I go in for a kiss or not so it puts my mood off plus she is always banging out about being single and not interested in a relationship. I know I'm a dominant guy when I'm wanted but if I she acts unaffected then I tend to feel I can't do much more. Plus the girl just lets me touch and have my arm around her without ever touching me.

definitely touching. pull the back of her hair, touch her arm, anything. I have even used "accidentally" touching boobs with my arm, if she pulls away, too much, she stays, shes in.


Get to a location where you can go all the way.


Next time when you are at a spot where you can have sex with her, tell yourself "no matter what I'm going to go for it!" the if you get a last little minute hesitation, tell yourself "f*ck it, im going for it"

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Kino her really sexually. Like really sexually and give her the fuck me eyes and all. When she asks you what the fuck you're doing, tell her she's a great friend but you can't keep your hands off her because she's so hot! Tell her you're really trying hard not to just grab her and take her to your bed, play it up, look like you're barely controlling yourself. Repeat this kino every once in a while and then back off. When you're not touching her, tease her, be playful and not needy for her attention. When you're close enough to touch her, escalate. When she calls you on the phone, tell her you've been thinking of her in the shower. Then tease her and change the subject. Basically push pull with real sexy KINO.

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